do you feel alone?
By euqaj18
@euqaj18 (252)
Philippines
8 responses
@charlestchan (1415)
• Malaysia
27 Apr 07
i think.. i will give you a few examples.. erm.. let's say when you want to have lunch with them... they will give excuses saying that they're too busy for it.. or they're going home. .but you know the fact that they're going to eat at that shop opossite the college.. haha.. they don't call you when they're planning a class party.. they think you're annoying or maybe you bragg yourself too much... they didn't invite you when they're hanging out to the mall.. they go quietly and all you know, the next day everyone in the class is talking about it.. except you.. because you don't know what happened at the mall.. enough of examples? :)
@lizeri (533)
• Philippines
16 May 07
Actually, I've been in that situation a lot of times. I should say, they will try to get rid of you as much as possible. In short, they reject you for they can't accept you as what you are. In that case, the problem is with them and not you. As long as you do not do any harm, you do not have to worry. Unless, they did something to you that is against you, to the point they stepped your ego, that's the time that you get alarmed.
@ethlene_c2h6 (241)
• Philippines
28 Apr 07
lucky for me, i haven't experience that. when i was in college we are not in a blocked section. we have different classmates in diffrent subjects. i get irritated by people who talk a lot, people who brag and those who pretend they know everything. you can say that they don't like you when they don't talk to you. When they talked to you, they say nasty things or they make fun of you.
@rolincenter (99)
• Philippines
15 May 07
hard to tell... especially if you're with unreal people/unreal peers. one, you could ask other people. two, you could try to eavesdrop gossips -- see if u're part of it. hahaha. three, don't do or say bad stuff to ur friends, it's a common reason why groups break up; why best pals end a close friendship.
The best test of friendship is hardship. The real measure of sincerity is difficulty. The sweetest deal is the moment you see who's peeling you when you're not round.
@H2hydrogenz (574)
• Indonesia
27 Apr 07
Because they doesn't like that doesn't mean you have to hate them as well. Just try to get along with them as possible as you can. If you still hurt because something that they do, just try to forgive them. I know this is not a simple but if you try and try again, then you will know it's also not so hard also.;)
@cheisentie (142)
• Philippines
27 Apr 07
i'm not comfortable when my classmates doesn't like me because I always thought that any mistake actions that i made they may laugh at me.. but I usually get their attention and do a favor for them in order for them to like me..