Would you give your partner a second chance?
By saadqur
@saadqur (31)
7 responses
@anjoks (2080)
• Philippines
30 Apr 07
Broke up with my boyfriend couple of months ago. But honestly if he comes back, there's no doubt about it i'll give him a second chance and accept him with open arms. Mainly because i still have feelings for him, love still sits in my heart for him. How i wish it will happen. . haahh! I wonder when will that be? haha. (",)
@bettyrose20 (997)
• Philippines
30 Apr 07
I cn give my partner a second chance if and only if he just had flirted with another girl and not actually doing the act (re; making love) because i wont tolerate really someone who cheaated. If someone cheated on you, that means he/she doesnt love you anymore.
@tombiz (2036)
• Philippines
27 Apr 07
Love is the only barometer for me under this situation. If you think that despite of what had happened, there is still that love (even a small remaining one), then go for it. Of course, the sincerety of the other person should also be considered. There are a lot of stories of broken marriages because of infidelity, which have been healed through time because there is still that remaining love for each other. With love, everything could be rebuild again. With love, everything can be forgotten. With love, every wound will heal.
@prettylady9143 (238)
• Philippines
30 Apr 07
yeah, i will give my partner a second chance why not if i can see and feel how sorry he was of what he did to me and ofcourse if i still love him and i'll still be happy with him. i wont accept him if yeah i can see and feel how sincere he is but i dont love him anymore. i must still love him and i can feel that i'll still be happy because i dont want to enter in a relationship that i dont love the man because it will end into nothing you see. love must be the main reason why you enter in a relationship. takecare
@sunshine4 (8703)
• United States
27 Apr 07
I would give him a second chance if he were truely remorseful for what he did. Forgiveness is so important in life. It would be a very hard thing, but I have built my life with this man. I would also make sure that we both attend counseling because if he cheated, there had to be a reason behind it and threw counseling we would be able to go forward.
@krisrael24 (62)
• Philippines
27 Apr 07
i dont know its really hard to say.. but i thinkit depends on the degree i guess, i mean if they just dated and nothing happened you know what i mean.. then i pwould probably give him a second chance
@Michele21 (3093)
• United States
27 Apr 07
I am married with two kids, so I don't thikn I could just up and leave my husband if he did something I didn't like. It would be really hard for me to throw our relationship away over something, but then again it depends on what it was. If it was something I didn't like, but not cheating I would just tell him I don't like that sort of things going on and ask him not to do it again. If he was "out with the boys" and had too much to drink and make a "mistake" with someone else I could probably work through that too. But it would take alot of work on his part! But if he has an actual relationship with someone else I don't know if I could get over that. Just my thoughts...I can't believe I went into all the circumstances and what I would do on here for everyone to know =) Oh well...good question!!!