Why is it easier for girls to get partners?
By ronney47
@ronney47 (109)
Nepal
April 27, 2007 10:51am CST
Throughout my life, I have found that there is a lesser rejection chance when a girl proposes a boy. Whereas I have seen very few success with a boy proposing a girl. I don't understand this. Maybe girls are more sensitive than boys and choose partners with more caution.
I want your views on this topic. Can you figure out why this is so?
5 responses
@paulsy (1263)
• Philippines
27 Apr 07
Yes, I guess you are right. Girls are probably more sensitive than boys in choosing their partners. It isn't a usual thing for a girl to propose to a boy. A girl will no do such thing, unless she knows by heart that this boy is really the right person for her. It takes so much self confidence, and guts for a girl to make the first move. She has to be sure and definite about herself that this is really the person she would like to share her feelings, her love, and maybe even her life with. She also has to be aware, before she makes her proposal, that somehow, somewhere, this person has some mutual feelings for her. Then that is only when she makes the move... and maybe that is why it seems there is lesser rejection chance for her.
@paulsy (1263)
• Philippines
4 May 07
I have never actually gone through that experience, but I have had a lot of girl friends who fell in love and wished to express their feelings to the person they love. Girls talk about these things among friends. If one of our friends was in love, we would see how much she felt for the guy. It always takes a lot of thinking and sometimes even needs a lot of advise from friends before any girl actually decides to make a move.
@ronney47 (109)
• Nepal
4 May 07
By reading your comment, I realized that you must have proposed somebody before whom you love very much. Your words are very true and full of love. Girls certainly require a lot of confidence to speak up to a guy about relationships. And if she does so, she must be true to it.
@calenduli (47)
• Nepal
28 Apr 07
Girls are honest, beautiful, and intelligent. Guys are not as honest at a guy. Guy want girl only for some small reason for small time. they get attracted soon and propose soon. girls wait, see and think before making any proposal. This is the reason why it is easier for girls to get partner easily.
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@ronney47 (109)
• Nepal
4 May 07
Well, you made a very concrete comment saying that guys aren't honest. Well, imagine for a moment that all guys and girls are honest, still you will find girls getting partners easily. You might have found some guys dishonest but you have to look around, you will see many girls dishonest as well. This is world and you will find different kinds of people.
@reykja (121)
•
27 Apr 07
Girls are more picky than boys. I find that lots of boys don't mind too much what there girlfriends wear, as long as they get along. But some girls are quite well, stuck up or want to keep up their appearances, so they'll pretend that they don't like the boys who propose to them. If their girl friends think that the guy is not up to standards, it's not that likely that the girl will accept him.
@natalie1981 (1995)
• Singapore
27 Apr 07
Maybe it's because guys are insecure. If a woman proposes to a guy, the guy would immediately jump at the chance because he thinks that there wouldn't be any other girls that would go for him while most women take their time to get to know the guy before jumping into any relationships.
@ronney47 (109)
• Nepal
4 May 07
I do believe that guys jump immediately to take chances but I have seen girls doing that as well. But more importantly, you might be referring to beautiful girls. I have seen girls who are not so pretty easily accepting relations. Maybe everybody wants their partner to be better than themselves
@dprabin (130)
• Nepal
28 Apr 07
Generally girls do not accept any proposals instantly. This makes guys think that it is rejection. I think that the girls need some to be sure about the guy. Also, most proposals are made by the guys. many guys make at least about 10 proposals in his teenage. Girls don't make that much proposals. When a girl makes proposal to any guy, whose many proposals are rejected, then her proposal is likely to be accepted, because he is a guy hungry for a relationship.
This is the reason which i think.
