what if your best friend betrayed you?

ya if she reveal then she is not ours .ya when truth fails then nothing there

Well she did just last weeekend and I am so ticked at her still adn I want nothing to do with her. I don't like it when someone betrays me or lies to me.

Like you i would ask her if it was true. If it was i would refuse to speak to her again. Your best friend should be trustworthy enough to keep all your secrets.

I have been betrayed by a friend several times,I am still friends with this person but I no longer consider her my best friend. I no longer tell her important things and the only reason I am still friends with her is because our children are close. I know it's not a good reason but I don't want my child to be in the middle of this nor hers.

i had been betrayed by a bestfriend...just because i had discovered a secret from her past eventhough i didnt tell anyone about it. and that secret was just fine with me. after that, i had learned that she'd been backstabbing me. until now, i had never confronted her about it, we're still communicating thru txt but i dont treat her as my bestfriend anymore.

I simply would not trust him/her with anything anymore. I actually have a friend who had this type of experience. She was being taken advantage of and her friends were talking behind her back but the sad thing was that she was the only one who DIDN'T notice. Her other friends including me were already telling her that many of her secrets including private family issues were already being disclosed to other people as gossip/rumors but for some reason she simply refused to listen maybe because she REALLY did trust her so-called best friend that much.. It came to a point where we got tired of telling her and maybe after thinking about what we said, that was the only time that she confronted her friend and the people who were spreading the rumors.. She stopped hanging out with that group of people and got a new set of friends

if that happens i will feel bad about her. but i would like to talk to her seriously on why and what made her do such things like that on my back. i would like to know before i'll make some rough decisions over her. but definitely i will never hurt her physically. because after all she is still my friend though not like before there may be some changes between our friendship but ill still consider her my friend even though she did such awful things to me.

this problems always occur in friendship but if you want to prolong your relationship and make it strong then you must talk like what you says but be calm on talking then simply ask her why she did it then ask what's her problem why she did that thing...after that be calm and talk to her what you feel when she did that thing and then if you are determine enough to know the real story behind all the reason she says then ask her and just talk peacefuly...but the most important thing you must do is touch her heart to tell the true and don't let that long relationship gone because of on mistake or one issue...you must trust each other.. hope i help