How you quit thinking about someone?

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@sansue (57)
Philippines
April 27, 2007 12:44pm CST
I've been thinking about this guy for about 4 days now. I can't stop thinking about him but i want to stop thinking about him... How do i get him out of my mind?
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7 responses
@lkbooi (16070)
• Malaysia
22 May 07
Things always happen like this, the more you try to suppress the more it will rebel. So my dear, no harm carries on thinking of him as long as you enjoy it. I think time will come when you could be able to forget him bit by bit and finally get him disappear from your mind. Only time can erase those memories. In the meanwhile keep yourself occupy with activities you are interested or get any replacement of love if you really want to get him out of your mind as you mentioned above.
• Philippines
21 May 07
Well in that situation, you have to condition your mind by reading the bible and do something that will make you feel busy, happy and more productive at the same time! God bless!
@innechen (1318)
• Indonesia
28 Apr 07
thats difficult situation, who is this guy? its really obvious that you fall in love with him, so why u didnt try to get closer to him and see if he love u also or not
@Anakata2007 (1785)
• Canada
6 May 07
put an elastic band around your wrist and snap it (HARD) whenever you think of him. This is a behavioural psychology method. You will eventually (it may take weeks) associate the thought of him with pain.
• Turkey
27 Apr 07
i am sometimes in that situation.:) firstly you must be sure about him..Are you in love vith him or not? if you are in love vith him.you must try to tell him you love him. if he declines you , you must try to forget him ok? you must be happy all the time. for example you can be with your friends all the time. so that you must be happy all the time...
@jalbeos (1175)
• Philippines
6 May 07
I am on this situation too. I have close friend who is really nice to me. I love the way we talk and interact. But she has a BF right and I don't want to get in their lives. I keep on trying to forget here... you know, I really feel something different, more than friend I mean. When I hear her talking about is BF, you know, it hurts, I mean, I feel jealous. Here's what in my mind right now: 1. No texting - sending short messages, I didn't mean no texting at all but my point is to limit the way you send sms. 2. Limit the way you approach - you should have limitations whenever you meet.
• Philippines
27 Apr 07
i understand how you feel. sometimes, we can't forget about someone because in reality, we do not have the will to forget the person. you just have to make up your mind to forget him and it will go from there.