if you were given the opportunity to talk to your ex...

thank you... - for not loving me that much - for being not so nice to me - for neglecting be during those times that i needed you - for cheating on me - for just seeing the worst in me - for setting me free when i finally asked for my freedom because after all this pain, i am now happy with who i become and who i am with right now.

I would normally say that I would go off on him and tell him about all the things that led to me leaving him..but instead, I would thank him for all the lessons I learned and thank him for leaving my life to make room for the person who would treat me better...then, I would go off on him and tell him how I feel about him...

"Hello, how are you" It depends of the situation. If we have been separated as friends, without a big dramma it will be different then if the separation was full with tears, blame and any forms of histery.