sorry to have beem mia for the last couple of days friends please read
By kaperkitty
@kaperkitty (1097)
Canada
April 27, 2007 6:19pm CST
Sorry to have been so quiet the last couple of days .I had some bad news on Wednesday at my neurologist appointment. My Dr and the vascular surgeon in the lager medical center about 6 hours from here had a video conference and after looking at my scans they have found my arterio venous malformation or AVM for short to deep in the brain to remove. They both feel I would not survive the surgery. Since the lesion is to large for radiation I am now on drug to relieve the pressure in the brain. I'm sorry I have not been myself I just needed a day or to to feel good and sorry for myself but now that has pasted lol. I know I can live a good long life with it there no one is guaranteed a tomorrow. Heck you can get hit by a bus crossing the street. I guess i just wanted it to be out of my body. But I"m doing fine now. I leave for Toronto and if you know Canada at all it's our largest city. I will be away for two weeks taking care of John's mom and dad after his mom's surgery. but the have to PC's so I'll be on line have no fear. I want to apologize to my friends at being so remiss in not commenting on there discussions please forgive me and know I'll be right back at it next week.
I'm just going to add what an AVM is for anyone who isn't familiar
AVM stands for Arteriovenous Malformation. An AVM is a tangle of abnormal and poorly formed blood vessels (arteries and veins). They have a higher rate of bleeding than normal vessels. AVMs can occur anywhere in the body. Brain AVMs are of special concern because of the damage they cause when they bleed. They are very rare and occur in less than 1% of the general population. AVMs that occur in the coverings of the brain are called dural AVMS.
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@kaperkitty (1097)
• Canada
28 Apr 07
Thanks that's very kind of you. Toronto should be fun I will try to get out shopping for the new house my husband and I just bought. That's really what I'm going to focus on now. Like i say i was just having a pity party for myself and thanks gain for the offer of support it means a lot
Cheryl
@ElusiveButterfly (45940)
• United States
28 Apr 07
Hey my friend. Sending you a big hugger. I hear ya on living a long life. We never know what tomorrow will bring though. Who knows what the big guy has planned for us. Take care of yourself while caring for your family. Huggers again!
@kaperkitty (1097)
• Canada
28 Apr 07
aw thanks hon i needed those hugs but i am feeling much brighter today i just needed those feel sorry for Cheryl days. But i have the new house to decorate when i get home and your right only the Big Guy knows when he is calling your number.I just felt bad not responding to my friends discussions and wanted to state why.I'll be back in full force Sunday because i fly most of the day tomorrow
thanks again for the hugs
Cheryl
@jennybianca (12912)
• Australia
28 Apr 07
I am very sorry about your condition & the fact that the Doctors can't operate. It is possible in years to come, that they will have the technology to operate safely.
I hope the medication they are giving you is to stop the AVM from bursting.
In the meantime, pplease do not worry that you can't be on My Lot very often.
By the way, I have been to Toronto. I had a lovely time there & especially enjoyed the Great Lakes.
@carlaabt (3504)
• United States
28 Apr 07
Oh Cheryl, I'm sorry to hear your news, but I'm glad to hear you are doing so well with it. It's good that you gave yourself a few days to think about it and learn to accept it.
That will be fun to go shopping for the new house while you are in Toronto! I'm sure you will have a great time. It will keep your spirits up, too.
I know you are a strong person and can make it through, though.
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@princeworthy (1909)
• United States
30 Apr 07
Oh hon I am so sorry to hear of this! I HAD noticed that you haven't been around and I was wondering where you went. I figured you had just gotten busy with another website or something. I am glad to see that you are back but you don't have to apologize to us, we will be here when you are ready to come back to us. Have a same trip to Toronto hon!
@VotreAmie (3028)
• United States
28 Apr 07
I'm sorry ti hear this kaperkitty and I'm glad that you are feeling fine now. I hope you will feel even better soon.
I lived in Canada for 4 years (Montreal). I have visited Toronto once and it's a really beautiful city. Take care.
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