why do boys passes comments while girls pass by them ?
@ashley_ansons (28)
United States
April 27, 2007 6:27pm CST
This on real fact on which most of the girls will agree with me, when ever any girl passes by a group of boys, it is very likely that one or more out of them will comment on the girl. comment may be either positive or negative, most of the time it is in negative sense. this happens in 95% cases. even i have gone through such situation a lot of time. I would like to share exprienceses who have gone through such situation, Also i would like to ask boys what goes through there mind while doing such actions. Why do they do so.
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@munhozmib (3836)
• Sao Paulo, Brazil
28 Apr 07
I don't see this happening in 95% cases. It's not that often. Of course boys talks when girls passes them by. But it's for the same reason that girls do the same. Girls talks about boys when they pass by. And girls talks about girls too, I noticed that.
Why? Not sure.
But boys do that because... we are boys! lol
@ashley_ansons (28)
• United States
29 Apr 07
i fully agree with u that we girls also comment when boys passes by us, but that is more of a murmering(i.e indirect commenting) where as boys comment directly and that to so louder that it is easily audible. talking abt comments they r usually on their body shape or their dressing. u said "boys do that because ...we r bys!" come on this in not good enough reason to say that boys have right to comment on girls and try tease them.
@munhozmib (3836)
• Sao Paulo, Brazil
29 Apr 07
Well, when the girl I love pass me by, I say: "Oh, she is beautiful today". She can't hear it, I know. I say that because she really is beautiful, and she impressed me!
@ashley_ansons (28)
• United States
1 May 07
i think that would sound more like a copliment than a comment and things said in a positive manner are always accepted. it is important that before saying anything to anyone one should be able to differentiate between a compliment and a comment.
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@amydawn11 (906)
• Canada
28 Apr 07
I think guys do it because they all having raging hormones..lol..I have never had anyone make any rude comments to me. I have had guys whistle, ask for my number, say things like hey sexy..I just ignore them and keep on walkin(I smile to myself too cause it makes yah fel good about yourself). I don't think it is just guys that do it though, girls can be just as bad. My bf is a crane operator and works in downtown Toronto at times and you should hear some the comments girls make to him. it makes me a bit jellous but i know he's comming home to me.
@ashley_ansons (28)
• United States
1 May 07
i think that u did the right thing by ignoring them, i would have done the same. i do accept that yhe girls do it too but if u compare the rtio of boys to girls involves in such activity then u find that girls r neligible as compared to boys that is why i related such actions to boys instead of both.
@ashley_ansons (28)
• United States
1 May 07
well i don;t find this tp be the beat way to compliment a person there r lot of other ways of catching any ones attention.
@vijiayyar (191)
• Ireland
28 Apr 07
Sometime ago i also used to wonder why is that boys always like to tease and comments on girls. Do they get any pleasure hurting the feelings of girls. Once i was really sad about a couple of boys commenting on me. Just the i relieved a call from my best friend who is a boy himself. I told him abt this incidence, and u bet he is a very sincere guy, he explained me very nicely why it happens, i.e. why do boys tease and comment. He said that when a boy sees someone good looking or sexy he feels a desire to possess that person and he cannot possess that girl just by his wish. This frustrates him and as boys are very insecure most of them can hardly digest their frustration and this frustration comes out as comments, positive or negative, or teases.
@FSCAries (881)
• United States
15 Jun 07
Guys are just immature sometimes. I think that making little comments, screaming out, honking a horn... any of those things is just to see if they can get your attention. Any attention is better than no attention, even if it is negative. Guys just don't usually know how to get girls' attention always, so they tend to makes butts out of themselves.
