Why I aways feel lonely?

China
April 27, 2007 8:18pm CST
I often feel lonely,but I do not know how I can change this bad habit .Can you help me ? Please tell me what do you do for relaxtion when you stay alone yourself,if you like .I do not have many interests,can you recommend me some ?I like to make friends with everybody who is honesty .If you are honesty ,maybe we can be good friend. DJ.Jery
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@AJNAG13 (137)
• Philippines
28 Apr 07
hey buddy! being a loner is not a problem at all. you know other people idolized those people like us. being a loner doesn't mean that you don't have any friends at all. it's just that you love being with yourself.. reflecting on things on your own with out anyone's help...
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• Philippines
28 Apr 07
Cheer up pal. Looking forward to see you more here. Enjoy!
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@buenavida (9984)
• Sweden
28 Apr 07
First of all, welcome here!! You will soon find some friends here, so donĀ“t worry. You can check my profile and see if you want me as your friend. The longer we live, the more we learn and that is why some cultures use the expression "rich in years" instead of just saying someone is old. You can learn a lot from reading good books and I would recommend the ones in my profile. Dale Carnegie is an interesting author. He wrote the book How to Win Friends and Influence People and he gives practical advice about how to get friends with almost anyone. I also like another book of him: How to Stop Worrying and Start Living I wish you a good time here in myLot and a great day!!
@sreevasu (2717)
• India
18 Jun 07
Jerry, while I am responding to your this 2 month old post and I have seen that you have not made any comments to the responses received. Come on, cheer up man, make comments to what others told you. Make them your friend, exchange ideas, communicate with them. You can get rid from your loneliness only by communicating with others. Open up your mind. You have many interests but all are hidden. They will come out only by making friends. Wish you good luck.
@sreevasu (2717)
• India
18 Jun 07
"No one can achieve anything without effort!" is the slogan posted in your profile. Since you are not making any effort not to be lonely always, how is possible?
• China
18 Jun 07
Yes,my friend you are right,I feel better now.I think it is time to do something changing the situation now .I should cheer up and communicate with other people,only in this way I can come out and enjoy my life .Thank you .
@sreevasu (2717)
• India
18 Jun 07
Thank you Jery for marking the best response. I feel really happy that you want to cheer up. In fact, after responding to your discussion, I was trying hard to communicate with you, I made a friends request. I expected your response. I just gone to your profile several times...No I feel too happy dear. Please also see my response to your other post on 'love'. Try to reply to all responses, at least a thanks. They deserve it. I know you are just the age of my son. Life should be give and take exercise. Find happiness in giving and receiving. But be cautious, all that's glitters is not gold! Happy mylotting...and thank you once again. Be in touch through private messaging also.
@Sissygrl (10912)
• Canada
28 Apr 07
welcome to mylot! I think as you go through some other people discussions you will find that you have more interests then you thought you had. that's how it worked out for me. But as for away from mylot, I like to take walks, even if they are pointless and just around the block, i like to read, listen to music and watch tv. I would enjoy swimming if i had a place to swim around here. I dont have many people as friends here, because i moved here to this small town where everyone knows everyone else... EXCEPT ME! Well i hope you have a pleasent stay at mylot, Have a good one :)
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@jalbeos (1175)
• Philippines
28 Apr 07
Welcome to myLot boy! Well, I was living alone for three years. My family wasn't with me. I was working in an Internet Cafe and doing stuffs in the Internet make me feel I am in a big crowd especially when you are participating forums and discussions online. I can be your friend, I'm honest...heheheh joke! Enjoy here in myLot, you are not lonely here, a lot of people are waiting for some discussions.... I'm glad you've started one... Welcome!