would you still love your partner if he/she can't give you a child?
By clarah_cille
@clarah_cille (654)
Philippines
April 27, 2007 10:29pm CST
they say that children would complete the true meaning of family. but what if your partner can't give you a child, would you still love him or leave him? its really a difficult to be in this situation. it really depends on how much you really love the person. it would be the most difficult test that you'll ever be in if it will happen to you. but my aunt and her husband live normally even if they don't have a child. instead, they treat my two siblings as if their children. they love them so much and never thought their family is lacking for they know that God have the reasons why it happened to them.
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5 responses
@Chryssi (828)
• United States
28 Apr 07
I would still love my partner if we weren't able to have children. Nothing would change the way that I feel about him, and if we really wanted a child, we could look into adoption. Everything happens for a reason, and if we weren't able to have a child, it would be perfectly fine with me.
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@clarah_cille (654)
• Philippines
30 Apr 07
that's good to know that you would still love your partner even if you two cant have a child. it will not matter as long as you two love each other so much...goodluck!!!(",)
@lilyoungfella (1196)
• Philippines
28 Apr 07
Yes. I'd still love her. Especially now we know that we will not be having a child.
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@danishcanadian (28953)
• Canada
28 Apr 07
Of course I would!!!! He knows I don't want to have children, and even if I did want children, if I found a man that I loved as much as I loved my partner, I'd realize that loving him would be more important than conceiving a child. If I still wanted children, that is to say if we still wanted children, we'd adopt a child already born, that didn't have a home.
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@danishcanadian (28953)
• Canada
28 Apr 07
You're darn right we will!!! If we ever desire a child, let's adopt one from that place in Ukraine you've been supporting for all those years.
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@clarah_cille (654)
• Philippines
30 Apr 07
i guess love will really conquer all. it will not matter how hardship or difficulties you'll encounter as long as you have each other.
@whiteheather39 (24403)
• United States
28 Apr 07
Yes I would. Then we could give an adopted child a happy, loving home if we could not have one of our own.
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@blue_gemz (107)
• Philippines
28 Apr 07
If you really love your partner you will not leave her/him just because you cant have children right???
if you cant stay just because of that, you dont really love your partner.
if you really want to have children then you can adopt...
