Maturity vs. Virginity

For me this is not as important as maturity. Someone who is mature won't be promiscuous either, so in a way there is a logic to things. Sometimes people fall in love and the desire is too strong to hold back, but every one makes mistakes, not every one is perfect. For me it would be more important to cement a good relationship with the person and also to be faithful to that person while I am with them.

I strongly believe that one should be virgin before they tie up to another.. it will be very hurting if you come to know that your partner isnt virgin.. likewise, if you arent virgin.., wht will pass on ure partner..! i strojgly felt hat one shud be virgin.. coz am brought up in that kinda cilture.. this is my personal opinion..!

Different people have different perspective... In my case i am too possessive about my things and would feel bad if my partner is not a virgin....but from general point of view it is no sin...it just happens

My country too makes a big deal out of virginity. But I thinkits just an overrated concept. being a virgin does not really change the kind of person you are. And its just a phsical act of love - so if you really love a person then id say by all means go ahead and do what you want. But i am opposed to random acts of sleeping with different people.

Yea, for us Filipinos it's very important but now adays that so modern and mostly we adopt some other culture. I think being matured is to accept the fact that if she/he not a virgin can be acceptable because your not part of the past of what happened so maybe it's not the big deal to talk about if you really love the guy or the girl so much.

It is a good thing to still be a virgin I know I knew someone who fell in love and well they were no longer a virgin and things didnt work out and they ended up with someone else later on and she was worried about htis and I told her he would understand and that most likely he had been with someone before too. Same thing had happened to him and well all worked out great. I wish hteir was more of it for we all wish our children to be virgins when they get married As long as a person dont go around and is considerd the doorknob everyone get their turn. that is wrong