what do you think is the most important between lovers?

I feel the most important element to a good relationship is open, honest communication about anything and everything, hide nothing. In order to establish trust one must know of what caliber the person they are to be trusting is, how that person feels, thinks, senses and touches their very soul. If there is little talking and a lot of petting, your relationship is in a bit of trouble especially if it lasts well into weeks . . . Talk to one another and hold no feelings back, even the negative ones because the other person has a right to know how they truly affect you and if the relationship is workable but any point of view. Communicative awareness is within the heart so speak from it. 'enlightenedpsych2' aka Erica H.

i absolutely agree with your opinion, and i think it's also important to give eachother somesapce, sometimes we need to stay alone, and understanding is everything, and show appreciation to eachother is also an important thing, i think.

i agree with you, and if i allow to add a little more is attention and appreciation are also important in lovers relationship.because some people have understanding and trust but they dont give enough attention or appreciation.

I agree with you that trust is the most important thing a couple should have. It is hard to keep a relationship when one person do not trust the other.

i think we have the same opinion regarding that. but the most important is respect. you have to have respect for your partner and then follows the trust, and love.

between two lovers, there should be true love, compassion, compatibility, respect and trust. If any of the above is missing then the relationship can turn sour. These are the vital nutrients for a perfect relationship.

For me, these three things are the most important: TRUST, UNDERSTANDING and LOVE.

i think that the most important thing is telling truth.. they must believe themselves.they mnust understand themselves. if they dont do this they will split up i think.