marriage

India
April 28, 2007 8:16am CST
hi,how many women like to work after marriage.is it good to be as a housewife rather than doing job.i think if women do job after marriage how could children get motherly love which is very precious. i am not saying that they should not do job forever ,but they should at least stop doing job after they had children till children start to go to school.i am also not telling that women are less talented that men but i think being a mother is great that doing a job.as i said they should stop to going to job after they had children till they go to school.
2 responses
• United States
28 Apr 07
well most of the time it takes 2 incomes to pay the bills. a parents love is important i agree but what is to say the dad cant stay home. some dads make better home makers then the moms do. me and hubby switched the kids between us when they were little we both had to work. then he got hurt and i was just working. now we home school them and i work but he stays at home with them. it is the same thought when they are little then when they are in school. when you send your kids to school dont you think they miss you when they are young. do they still need that time at home with motherly love. i think it is great when a parent is the one taking care of them yes. but i dont see anything wrong with someone working either.
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• United States
29 Apr 07
well for starters they dont have to go to school for there future. mine dont we home school them. we dont send them off to school we do it ourselves. also there are alot of moms that dont have the love but the dads do. then there are some that neither of the parents do really. trust me. my mom i am glad didnt stay home with us she just didnt have mother love unless there was a high in it for her. now my dad he did. my grandpa did as well. it all goes on how you look at things. i work my husband stays home and takes care of the kids and does there home schooling. i work 4 days a week and i am home with them on my days off. i am here in the mornings as well. i am gone 8 hours 4 days a week. i am with my kids more then if they went to school. when they were small i had them from 8am till 7pm then my husband had them. then 2 days a week we were both with them. also you can be a stay at home parent and still not give your child enough attention. just cause you are at home doesnt mean you spend quality time with them. it just means you are home. we spend quality time with ours.
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• India
29 Apr 07
sending kids to school is important for their future. but don't u think that women are symbol for love .so it would be better to raise children for a women.if both has to work to leave then it is exceptional case. but some women want to work even if they got enough money why can't they stay at home and care for children. and i am not telling that they should be in home forever but for some years .
• India
28 Apr 07
I strongly agree with you Bhuvan Mothers love is precious than any other love in the world.So a child should be allowed to get it at required time
• India
29 Apr 07
hi thanks for your view. i am from india and wht about you?
• India
29 Apr 07
india, chennai