Your partner is too demanding of you

@magica (3707)
Bulgaria
April 28, 2007 9:01am CST
How you share the problem with too demanding of you partner who is never satisfied of you - whatever you doing. Do you accept it as ambition to help you to improve yourself, as way to dominate you and to show you her supremacy or?
3 responses
@mrsbrian (1949)
• United States
28 Apr 07
I dont have a demanding partner but if i did I would put a stop to it right off no one has a right to demand you to do anything,that is just short of abuse or really it is a form of mental abuse. I believe the partner is unhappy with themselves and is takeing this out on you did you not see this person was demanding before you moved in or whatever.again I say i would put a stop to it.
@magica (3707)
• Bulgaria
28 Apr 07
I agree that this behaviour between partners breaks the harmony.He can stimulate and help me if i need so, but if there are too much requirements - this makes me unsure am i the right woman for him indeed. And if i am a strong character-this will result struggle for domination. Do we really know where to put the STOP?
@mrsbrian (1949)
• United States
28 Apr 07
The place to put a stop to it is right away.There should be no dominate one everything should be 50/50.
@magica (3707)
• Bulgaria
28 Apr 07
I am a free-minded person and very sensitive to any forms of domination:( If he wants me to be better-is he ready to be better too? I noticed that most of the demanding men are too self-indulgent and there is no balance between demanding and giving:(
@kwlanje (52)
• India
28 Apr 07
no, my love is exactly what i desire of.she is perfect for everything. so what we demand from ourselves. so we are perfect match.we love each other much much...
@magica (3707)
• Bulgaria
28 Apr 07
congratulations :-)I am allways glad to meet a couple who is in harmony each with other. The real love is allways forgiving and giving :-)
• Malaysia
28 Apr 07
i am not in a relationship at the moment, but if i had a bf who is too demanding of me to change my ways the way he want me to be, i would put an end to the relationship. Being in a relationship, for me means the other partner accepts you for who you are. if he isnt satisfied with how i look, my body..etc, then he should find someone else that suits his perception of perfection. It doesnt mean that we dont have to take into consideration the other person's demands, but if we are comfortable & accept ourselves the way we are.. i dont see any reason why we have to change ourselves. If we want to make a cahnge to ourself, we should do it for ourselves, not out of satisfying the demands of the partner..
@magica (3707)
• Bulgaria
28 Apr 07
And the question is logical: when we love somebody, do we love and accept him indeed or we just want to form him to complete our needs. And isnt it selfishly? Is our spouse really our "other I"?