Can a girl be "too available"?

@sansue (57)
Philippines
April 28, 2007 4:10pm CST
There is budding relationship potential between me and a guy. However, he's far away for the time being, so most of our communication is via email or cellphone. I'm not an increcdibly busy person. I don't go out a ton. 99% of the time, I pick up when he calls. I rarely miss his calls. Does that send him the message that I am a bit too eager? Am I being "too available" (is there such a thing)? Part of me says, "Look, you're 25-- grow up. You're overthinking this, now stop being such a girl! And yet i wonder...
1 response
@Jalany (19)
• United States
29 Apr 07
You may think you're being to available, but try not answering the phone once in awhile and see his reaction. He will probably go ballistic but not tell you. For the sake of his feelings please remain being available.