Have you ever had this problem? Gossip

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Have you ever had this problem? Gossip= people who don't mind their own business. I try not to gossip it's unethical for me, well depends on who and what the gossip is about, but heck at work, today, it was so frustrating. I try to be good, I try not to get angry at their snarl remarks but hell they gone below the blet... I don't take advantage of people. I don't want to get angry because it'll cause me to say things in anger. Why people always have to bother other people, why don't they just mind their own business? Why can't they let me be who I am? I'm just a gal who minds her own business, trying to make ends meet, trying to get a promotion and goes straight home at night. And yeah, I'm not like other people who do parties and all. I'm just a homebody. This is me. Why do we need to concern about other people's views about us? For that matter why the heck I'm writing this now,,,Let's face it my colleagues don't really know the whole me b'coz they never let me in. If they let me in it'll be just taking advantage of my good personality,,, doing their job. They said I'm immature,, That's a BIG BULL... let's define: immature= a. not mature, b. early period of life or development/growth, c. undeveloped social awareness (my personal favorite definition) Does it give you the right to judge people of their own maturity when you yourself are immature, uncivilized? What happened today is a misunderstanding but they won't accept it. Pride I guess. (I'd rather not divulge on the details, suffice to say I said something that they don't want to accept the truth) I really don't know anymore. All I know is if I please them I'll end up not pleasing everybody, especially myself... I guess what I'll do is mind my own business and make sure my job won't get affected for it, if it did then I'll just be beneath them, and make them very proud for I let them win.