Can harmones ruin a relationship?
By Ronyaz87
@Ronyaz87 (85)
United States
April 29, 2007 7:09am CST
Heres the senerio. I'm 20 years old and 9 months pregnant. My boyfriend is 23. I find myself crying almost everyday because of my relationship. I am not happy. My byfriend does not make me feel like I am a priority in his lifr. I feel like everyone else is before me. There is no affection from him. Most of the time i go to sleep alone because he winds up getting high with his freinds in the livingroom till about 3 or 4 in the morning and i can't be around that stuff, nor do i want to. So basicly i cry everyday beacuse i want a man who is inlove with me and who will put me and our baby first. I want a family. I am so tired of crying. Whenever i tell him how I feel it leads to an argument and ends in hims saying I cry over everything.
Ok I just needed to vent for a minute. What I want to know is, is this just my harmones or my female emotions? Do you think i am over reacting. I don't want to ruin my relationship.
Can I get anyones opinion? Thanks
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@makamania20 (274)
• India
29 Apr 07
Hi !!me not much xperience but just externally i can also understand ur feelings!!! since u r married just few months back! obviously we always miss wid each other!!!n its urs first physical change coz of ur first child!!!so ur emotion also towards urself is too changing fast!! evry instant u feel something n feel like its hurting me!!!! most probably ur husband may b busy indeed for his business n all !!coz u guys r starting ur life!!so realy need to b busy now!!i think better u dnt think much ,just careurself n ur child even if its hard to do! n allow ur husband to do hardwork now get luxrious latr!!! Try to b patient now as much as u can coz its quete natural that evry pregnant mother become so suspecious n curious coz of child!!!alwys protective!!
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@ESKARENA1 (18261)
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29 Apr 07
i really feel for you and i wish you all the best on the upcoming event. First of all, the imminence of new life places a large amount of straign on any relationship. He will also be terrified of the responsibility it brings. Your hormones are all on high alert as your body gets ready for its bigest job yet. You are not overreacting, you are reacting perfecly normally in your situation, but it will pass with the blessed event of birth
blessed be
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