When your boyfriend is busy,what do you do?
By banban
@banban (601)
China
April 29, 2007 7:35am CST
My boyfriend is now busy with his work,so we don't have enough time together for nearly three months.Every day,I go to the class alone, have meals myself and do other things.I don't want to bother him,but I often miss him and want to stay with him all the time.However,he puts all his mind into his work.So, I am always angry with him,which makes him vexed.
If you were me,what will you do?
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3 responses
@lealanie23 (12)
• Philippines
1 May 07
If I were you banban...talk to him in a right time. It would be impossible that your boyfriend wont spare you with at least an hour. Talk to him in a manner where both of you are calm...Tell him this... You Know I love you and I understand that you really into this job...all I want is to at least we spend each other sometime...even once a week. The only way is to compromise. Tell him that you want to spent time with him because you really love him. Just don't be sober, if his not with you then enjoy other things... be with your other friends just don't depend your happiness to your boyfriend. spare sometime with your family and friends. SO smile Banban....there are many more reasons not to be sad
@sizzle3000 (3036)
• United States
30 Apr 07
I would not smuther him. He is your boyfriend not your entire life. I am married and my husband and I both have a life besides the one we have together. I have friends that I go out with and spend time with. He has friends he spends time with. I am out of work right now and my husband has a forty hour a week job. He is tired when he comes home and some times I just want to go out so I do. I never understood how anyone could give up who they are because of the person they are with. I love my husband but to expect him to be with me all the time seems unreasonable to me. I know he loves me even when we are not together. I have my own personal space to do what I want. Yes we do spend a lot of time as a couple put not every second of the day.
Understand that he is working hard to get ahead and charish the time you have together. Good luck
@drizzle_anne (381)
• Philippines
29 Apr 07
we're on the same situation.. what i did was i diverted my attention to a lot of useful things like earning money and attending some workshops :)
