Which one do you prefer? To have loved and lost, or never to have loved? And why
By aspergillus
@aspergillus (49)
Turkey
3 responses
@jennybianca (12912)
• Australia
30 Apr 07
I suppose I prefer to have loved & lost. Even though the pain from a loss is very great.
What do you prefer?
@aspergillus (49)
• Turkey
30 Apr 07
I agree with you Jennybianca, to loved and lost may hurt, but it is better not to afraid, open your heart, love is good, love is gooooooooooooooddddddddddddd:)
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@aspergillus (49)
• Turkey
30 Apr 07
I agree with you, I would prefer to have loved and lost. To have loved and lost may hurt, but we shold not afraid and open our hearts, love is good, love is gooooooooodddddd
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@Zerzis (557)
• India
29 Apr 07
i prefer to never love at all. Its very very difficult to rise above the pain and start living all again with same enthusiasm. ITs very difficult to love someone other after you loose your first love. Better is never to love someone. I think its important that who loves us rather than whom we love. Isnt it? We are more happy in company of people who love us rather than those who love us.
what you think about this? huh ?
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@aspergillus (49)
• Turkey
29 Apr 07
Dear Zerzis,
Have you ever met a person, who is together with him/his first love?
I have never met such a person. All of the people around me lives with someone else.
To love someone rather than being loved is much more difficult, you are right. But if you don't feel the pain of love, is it possible to understand how precious to fall in love?
@lani0529 (1722)
• Philippines
29 Apr 07
Hello aspergillus!(",)
I really don't know what to choose because I haven't experienced being in a realtionship.(",) Given a chance I would like to love and have lost that not loving at all. I think I can bear the pain and I think that the pain will make me stronger and wiser the second time around.(",)
@aspergillus (49)
• Turkey
29 Apr 07
Hi Lani,
Your answer is quite interesting. I looked at your photo, you look like nice. Why have you not fallen in love until now :))
But i agree with you, for me, it is better to have loved. Love is good, love is gooooooooooodd :)
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@aspergillus (49)
• Turkey
3 May 07
I hope you can find your love as soon as possible.
And I wish you to be happy.
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