When u know u r in love or it jus u feel lonely?
By jessielim96
@jessielim96 (76)
Malaysia
April 29, 2007 10:49am CST
Now I am single again, n I am not ready for another relationship yet. My best friend, who I knew him since I am in Secondary 1, suddenly confessed that he like me, as I am the only person who understand most. I am happy to know that, as I like him since high school. BUT, in 2nd thought, he is really in love with me, or it jus he is lonely, and cant find someone to date with, then he asked me to be his gf? He knew I like him last time, but he refused me when I confessed to him then. Wat shall I do? Wat do u guys think?
3 responses
@margmats (27)
• France
29 Apr 07
If you're not ready for a relationship as you said at the begining of your text, you should follow your feelings, try to see if you really like him, or if it's just because you're lonly at the moment... but since you right "I am not ready for another relationship yet" i think you should trust your first thoughts, that says a lot!
Good luck!!
@jessielim96 (76)
• Malaysia
29 Apr 07
I know wat u said is rite, as when he told me that, I already clear that I am not ready & confused. As the time passed, I feel lonely & wanted a partner, but I don 1 2 dissapointed once again. Is that confusing or selfish thoughts?
@jessielim96 (76)
• Malaysia
30 Apr 07
Thanks for the advice. I think I sud follow my first feeling of being alone for awhile. Not having a partner is not a big deal anymore to be.. I still got friends to hang out with. ^^
@summergorgeous (674)
• Philippines
1 May 07
the question is, are you ready for a relationship again? and are you willing to risk your frienship? if you answered both question with yes then i suggest you go for it.
@jessielim96 (76)
• Malaysia
1 May 07
No & donno. I am not ready for a relationship yet & I donno I can risk this friendship. Now he & I like acting stranger. I donno his real feelings, & tat makes me boring & fed up. =(
@munhozmib (3836)
• Sao Paulo, Brazil
30 Apr 07
Well, I know when I love someone or when I am only lonely. I know that what I feel right now about this girl is love.
But she doesn't love me back, and even though I still love her. Even after all her bad points, I still love her. I don't know why, I just love her! I love her more than I love myself! Strange, isn't it?
@jessielim96 (76)
• Malaysia
30 Apr 07
Love is always strange.. U felt like tat it's bcos u havent given up the hope to get back together again. When u realized that she is no longer important for u, u will know tat is time when u r in love with her anymore..
