Do you understand the meaning of spending time together

United States
April 29, 2007 2:15pm CST
I am upset with my husband because he seems not to know the meaning of spending time together or as a family. He told me he was going to go work with this guy 12 hours a day on his off day to get me a car, but I already have one, he was not suppose to go yesterday but he went yesterday and today and tomorrow he will be back to his work week so that means this weekend he spent no time with me or the kids I know some people might find what I am considering extreme "a D-I-V-O- R-C-E" because this is not the first time this has happend and he promised me he wouldn't do it again but yet here we are in the same situation I love him and he takes care of me but what is the point in staying married when I feel alone and I have also told him this and this is not just the second times no he is a habitual offender and I am tired. I feel like I am a single mom again so I might as well be because usaully I cry when he does this kind of thing but I am numb and feel like our love is not the same.
1 response
• India
9 Nov 07
Hey papinprincess, Don't worry, he is a workaholic. As he has promised you, he might be working on savings to buy a car for you. Buying a car needs some savings so, to save that kind of money he has to work for some extra time for some months or at least a year. Until then you have to bear that. Why R U worried or talk about D I V O R C E, it is only his initiative to give you a worthy gift. You accept it gracefully.