waahhhh i think i have an atttitude problem or im just too paranoid...

i think the response above me said it all. i would just like to add that jealousy is the ingredient for a guaranteed break up. This is what happen to a guy when you put a leash on him. His love for you before is 100% but when he said his going out with friends for a school reunion and you say "No" or be home early and he grudgingly aggreed, but there is resentment there. Love for you is no longer 100% its now 99%. Everytime you said "No" this and "No" to that a part of him changes. He may not admit this but his love for you or his attitude towards you somehow dimishes. He will not be more caring or loving as he used to be. This is what happen to me. I heard the words "NO" a lot of times and it changes me into something I'm not. Jealousy towards a female friend is also not good for a relationship. This will be the source of most of your quarrels. Keep this up and the guy will start to keep secrets from you. I did, when I was still single.

I don't have any clear understanding as to what extend is your relationship with your boyfriend. From what I can read from your previous threads, you are somewhat a little possessive and jealous, sorry to say this...just my observation. Try to hold down on your emotions and realized that your boyfriend needs his space too. I can understand that you want to be with him 24/7. Look around you and search for something to do other than spending too much time with your boyfriend. I know it wont be easy. Holler your friend and try to busy yourself. Stop thinking about any negativity. Its a sign that you don't trust your boyfriend well.

It kind of sounds as though you're a little on the possessive side - only going on you commenting that you want to be see him & be with him 24/7. I think there might also be a trust issue there coz you're worried about what he's doing all the time & worrying about something like that sounds as though you don't trust him enough to not be with him all the time. i don't know how you can be too strict, unless you tell him what to do & when to do it - if that's the case, you might wanna back off a little bit coz if i had a boyfriend who told me what to do & when to do it, i'd break up with him for trying to run my life & that's not how relationships are supposed to be. You're both supposed to be equals in a relationship. Sit your boyfriend down & chat with him about your feelings coz a possessive girlfriend is definitely a turn off & you don't wanna risk losing your bf just because you're obsessed with him & what he's doing all the time! Goodluck.