Cheating: What are the signs your mate is cheating?

@bad1981 (799)
United States
April 29, 2007 11:04pm CST
What are the signs that your mate is cheating on you? What red flags does it send? How do you identify them?
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@tantal25 (838)
• United States
12 Jun 07
as far as i can say, being uneasy is a sign. he always hides his cellphone, he did had a lot of allibies and sorts of things.
• India
5 Jun 07
i think, if your partner is cheating on you, he/she will fumble in speech while speaking on the subject. other signs could be that he might try to flatter unnecessarily.
• Canada
30 Apr 07
Usually if you have any inkling at all that you are being cheated on even if you have nothing to back your feeling up and you are not going on just being jealous for some reason is a big indication that your spouse is cheating on you . You would notice a difference in the relationship as you won't be a close as before and talking will become harder for your spouse . Odd behavior such as having to go someplace that your spouse didn't normally go before or not being home when they said they would or even just disappearing without any real reason . You will be able to notice subtle differences but nothting that you can pinpoint exactly . If you suspect this then just be sure to watch more closely . I wouldn't bring it up til you are sure but you will notice things that just don't add up no matter what excuse they give you . You will feel this in your gut and won't be able to get rid of the suspicion . I have dealt with this in the past and have never been wrong no matter how much I wanted to be and even when I had no proof about it , I had a gut instinct and I went on that . Take Care !!
@mememama (3076)
• United States
30 Apr 07
I've been cheated on by a few ex-boyfriends. I usually had my gut instinct tell me something was up. The first thing that would happen was that they accused me of cheating, they did this because they realized that they were doing it, so it's a possibility I could stray-and we know how territorial men can be! I'd have a hard time getting ahold of them, they both had cell phones and it would be turned off or would go unanswered in the evenings when they were home. I lived with two boyfriends that were cheating-sooner or later the other woman showed up at our home. One time I was home sick from work and she didn't think I'd be there. Boy was she shocked when I answered the door, I knew right away who she was by the look on her face. The other one cheated while we were all drinking, they actually were found in our bed-like one of the movies! I had a lot of fun throwing all his stuff out onto the lawn like the movies too lol. Another sign was when I was talking on the phone, I could hear him walk into another room or he would barely speak or say my name (like the destinys child song), because he was with the other woman.
• Indonesia
30 Apr 07
hm the most common is your mate is now always busy n' don't have any time for you even you know that he / she not always that buzy...