marriage
By fazelath
@fazelath (1174)
India
7 responses
@margareta (59)
• India
30 Apr 07
the laws says girls above 18 yrs can get married. According to me you should be mentally prepared to accept the life after marriage and you should prepare yourself to take the responsiblity of your life .
@niharikadacoolest2 (468)
• India
2 May 07
The right age for a female to get married is the age at they become matured enough to understand the relationships and feelings. They have to be enough matured to understand the burdens they have to take after marriage.
Most of the females get matured at the age of 18. So it is the correct time. 18 years is considered as a matured stage because they would have by the time generally in graduation. By the time of graduation they would have already completed all life sciences and moral sciences. So they would have understood half of the life sciences
@salam1 (1474)
• Malaysia
2 May 07
Human mind can mature, but cannot see the truth and science itself can examine things that can be touched, smelled, and heard only. Even though there maybe is a life or social science but there still a main problem for that - we can taste life but cannot touch, smell, and heard life. My point is philosophers agree that science cannot explain life or social, you can read Comte (1856) if I am not mistaken.
@sweetpunch (915)
• Pakistan
30 Apr 07
According to Islam the true marriagable age i s given in this article I am pasting writing down;
"How does the Qur’an define ‘marriageable age’?
There are several Hadith reports that ProphetMuhammad (pbuh) married his third wife Ayesha when she was 6 year old and consummated her marriage when she was 9. If this is true,then it must be consistent with the Qur’an that tells us that tells Muhammad himself followed the Qur’an before he asked others to follow it. The Qur’an does not assign a definite number to the age at which a man or a woman becomes‘adult’ or ready to marry. However, there is a clear definition of the marriageable as inQuran (4:6)
an-Nisa' 4:6] Make trial of orphans until they reach the age of marriage; if then ye find sound judgment in them,release their property to them;
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@sweetpunch (915)
• Pakistan
30 Apr 07
This verse is taking about two concepts here;First of all, the trustee of a property should first test the ability of the grown up orphan to see if he or she is capable of managing his or her own affairs well.Second, the Qur’an provides guidelines for the trustee as to the time at which the property of the orphans is to be handed over--it is the time when the orphan has attained adulthood or marriageable age and that he or she has attained a good degree of mental maturity. Thus, the Qur’an gives a clear definition of adulthood or marriageable age as the one when one has attained a good measure of mental maturity.
@prettylady9143 (238)
• Philippines
2 May 07
right age? whew! i guess 25 years old and above will probably be the right age for women to get married. but then regardless of their age as long as they are matured enough to handle things and situations and really ready..well, i guess they can get married anytime. but not 21years old and below please because i think they are not matured yet and marriage can end into nothing but heartache and broken marriage. takecare.
@mystery5 (350)
• India
2 May 07
I would put the right age at 20 to 24. I believe that people should marry early, even men. The advantage of marrying early (provided you are sure that you have chosen the right partner) is that you both 'grow' together.
Younger people find it easier to adjust to each other, and can adapt to each other more easily. The older you get, the more experiences you have, the more rigid you become and the bigger your ego grows. In these circumstances, marriage remains a partnership of two people. In younger people, they become a unit - functioning as one and making their love last much longer.
@buenavida (9984)
• Sweden
30 Apr 07
Some choose to wait with marriage until they have finished their education and can help to support their family. It can be good not to be in a hurry, just enjoy life first and learn to be a responsible human being.
Marriage means a lot of responsibilities and taking care of many relationships so it is good to have time to train and become a mature grown up before getting into something you would regret later.
It also takes time to learn to know the real personality of your future husband, in this case the young ones may get help from their parents, since they are not "blind" from love and they have more experience.