Stop judging others
By Ellie
@ellie26 (4139)
Malaysia
April 30, 2007 3:47am CST
How easy it is to judge others. The criteria we oftenuse include looks, dress, academic achievement, personality, athletic skill, and os on. we come to shallow decisions about who is in and who is out. We dissociate from those who do not wear designer clothes or who are overweight.
Are you a judgemental kind of person? Why do people like to judge other without even thinking of themselves first?
4 responses
@conjay (33)
• Philippines
30 Apr 07
I don't judge people... judging others is like criticizing...There's a good thing and a bad thing when you tend to apply "judging"... It's good when you say something directly to a friend,which is an honest right.. It's bad when you judge people behind their backs... These people who oftenly judge other people are those who are insecure.
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@ellie26 (4139)
• Malaysia
30 Apr 07
You have a good point there. Those who are insecure normally that people who wants to be like others but cannot due to some reasons only known to them. But do you think if someone say something directly to you, though it is an honest but not so pleasant comment, can you take it positively?
@iszo07 (472)
• Malaysia
30 Apr 07
In my opinion, sometimes we just could not avoid of judging other people because I believe it comes naturally from within.
For example, if you saw some homeless looking for food out of a garbage, your brain will automatically will say something. Of course, it doesnt mean we say something bad about them. But my point is, we will JUDGE them unittentionally.
I'm not ajudgemental kind of person because I hate to be judged by others. At least from there I know , its not nice to judge other people. At least intentionally
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@bindishah (2062)
• India
30 Apr 07
I dont really judge others by their physical looks or byw hat they have or dont have. Atleast I try not to. I wont say it never happens but we should all atleast consciously try to not let it. After all no one is perfect and we should treat others the way we want to be treated ourself.
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@easy888 (10405)
• Australia
30 Apr 07
Hello,ellie,I do not like to judge and compare people,I think everyone is special and we should not judge them on any criteria,you may be better than me in something but I may better in something else, there is no point to compare with other people.
