how would console yourself if you're in a bad mood or if you're lonely?
By clarah_cille
@clarah_cille (654)
Philippines
April 30, 2007 5:08am CST
do you prefer to hide yourself in your room and cry silently? being lonely or in a bad mood is a natural moment of a person. everybody undergone in it but should know how to handle it so that you cannot hurt other people's feelings in getting out your anger through them. these are the times that we need to be alone or need someone to talk to, either ways...just try to control your emotions and find time to relax and weigh things over.
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5 responses
@charms88 (7538)
• Philippines
1 May 07
Whenever I'm in a bad situation, I will simply go back to my own little shell and reflect on what's going on. I will stay in my study room which is my sanctuary. But I don't cry. I haven't cry for the longest time. I find it such a waste to shed my tears as it will only give me more headache. I only needed a quiet surrounding so I can better deal with my emotions.
@clarah_cille (654)
• Philippines
2 May 07
but i believe that you need to cry sometimes to feel more better. crying is cleansing your soul that have been through a lot. its not a waste to shed, its only proving that you are human and have feelings that have been hurt by someone or the situation.
@psyche49f (2502)
• Philippines
30 Apr 07
I think you're right. There are really times when one is really upset, or lonely, and just need to be alone in the room. Crying helps , especially if the hurt is so deep. Talking it out with a friend or close family member also helps. But for me, I just want to lock the door to my room to cry. After the crying, I often feel relieved, and the tension gone. If it calls for talking to a family member, I do that to ease the pain and the hurt.
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@clarah_cille (654)
• Philippines
30 Apr 07
yeah, either locking up and cry or share with someone would greatly help ease the pain that you feel inside.
@andak2007 (3229)
• Philippines
8 May 07
if im in a very bad mood its better that i don't talk to anybody because there is this tendency that i shout out or act out what i feel inside...but when im lonely i just turn on the radio and listen to the music then im fine again.
@summergorgeous (674)
• Philippines
1 May 07
when im angry, i just like to be left alone so i could cool my head. but if im lonely, i usually go for a jog, listen to music or watch a movie. it usually works for me.
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