Every event has a cause
By Chazzyben
@Chazzyben (65)
India
April 30, 2007 6:36am CST
Have you ever felt that everything happens for a reason?.I think nothing happens by chance or luck or ill luck.Everyting love,hatered,success even failure has a strong reason.
I personally had such experience which i want to mention.When i was in school a tour was arranged by the school management.We had to report to the school on the day by morning 4.00 a.m.But to my bad luck the clock at my home had stopped by 1.00 am.I missed the bus.I felt so sad, I cried because it was the most expected trip and I could have enjoyed a lot in the trip.But the next day I got high fever later it was conformed to be chicken-pox. I really felt a bit happy because what would have happened if i had gone for the trip. How horrible it would have been going for a trip with chicken-pox.
Do you think without these happening life would have gone in a wrong way?.I think so.I think every single person we meet have some thing to in our life.Every success and downfall teaches us a different experience from wchich we learn different things.Sometimes we meet people whom we dont even know, later you feel that you have met them for some sort of purpose.
If some one hurts you,betrays you or insults you,you forgive them because they have helped you to learn about trust and the importance of being cautious while dealing with people?
Do you think without those bad lucks,depressions,or failures life would have been very smooth yet boring?.
Please you are welcome to post your comments regarding this matter.Please do specify incidences if any.Thank you.
3 responses
@munhozmib (3836)
• Sao Paulo, Brazil
30 Apr 07
I know that everything happens for a reason. I don't believe in miracle. Actually, we have two different opinions. You think that the clock stopped because it would be bad to go to the Trip sick. In my opinion, the clock stopped because there was some failure in it. Not because you were going to be sick.
I believe in scientistic facts about life. If anything happens to YOUR life, it's your fault. If you miss the bus, it's your fault. You coulda been there earlier. If you are hit by a lost bullet, it's your fault. You are the one in that place, you could be somewhere else. The only sad thing is that we never know what is going to happen, so we can't avoid these things considered as "bad luck".
@Chazzyben (65)
• India
30 Apr 07
It is good that you believe in scientific facts of life, but at sometimes things are beyond our control.The perspective in which we see a thing differs from person to person.Say for example,according to you the failure of the clock was a technical fault, but for me it was a good happening as I was saved from going for that trip.Anyways I respect your view.
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@munhozmib (3836)
• Sao Paulo, Brazil
1 May 07
You said you got Chicken-pox in THE NEXT DAY. Maybe if you went to that trip, you wouldn't get sick.
@Chazzyben (65)
• India
1 May 07
Hey once chicken pox virus gets inside a persons body it takes 3-4 weeks to show the symptoms.so i mean exactly on that day it had shown its symptom.So it is not a matter of one day fever or anything ok.
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@ailegal (49)
• India
30 Apr 07
Yes everything happens, happens for a reason. Some time its called cause and effect and some time its Law of Karma.
Had there been no darkenss we couldn't have realised the value of light. If there were no failures our success would have tasted less sweeter.
I'm a firm believer in it. I think what happened to me has happened for good. What is happening to me is happening to me for good and what will happen to me in future that will also happen for good.
This simplification of the cause of effect has saved me from a lot of worries.
Chezzyben's experience will speak for my contention.
@Chazzyben (65)
• India
1 May 07
As yor are my guru,I dont have the age to comment on you.You are right always.