Can you love someone and not completely trust them?

@jmcafam (2890)
United States
April 30, 2007 11:45am CST
I mean it is not like you think every moment something may not be right but have that .01 percent of thought that the person could possibly do something because they had before. I don't know if this is coming out right but I'll leave it as is.
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angelface23
@angelface23 (2494)
• United States
30 Apr 07
I think I get what you are saying. My husband for example tells little white lies. Not about anything important though. He will also make plans for the future and they never happen so I know not to really take what he says seriously. Like he will tell me that he cussed someone out at work or something dumb like that but I know he didn't. Or we will have a conversation about him doing something and the next day when I bring it up he will be like we never talked about that. I know he remembers he just doesn't want to do it. I'm sure you are talking about a different kind of not trusting but I think you can love someone and not trust them completely.
jmcafam
@jmcafam (2890)
• United States
1 May 07
My hubby disagrees. He believes that to love someone you have to trust 100% of the time. Is is even possible to completly trust someone all the time in every aspect of life? I believe that you can love someone without it being 100%. Are you supposed to trust when he says he's been to the moon, for example when you know he has not.
kcrysea
@kcrysea (195)
• Philippines
1 May 07
well for me not trusting someone and yet you love him doesnt make sense. Thats what my bf is telling me. How could you love a person if you dont trust him?