how do i knw if she likes me???help every1 plssss...
By jed123
@jed123 (18)
Canada
April 30, 2007 6:20pm CST
okay theres this girl frm our school...uhm we chat alot,we tak in the fon sumtyms,we have alot in common like she plays tennis and i like to play tennis..we both play ping pong..and she said she is gonna play tennis with me soon..and i dnt knw if she likes me..and she has a boyfrend though but she said she doesnt like and love her bf already and she's gonna dump hm..but i just saw them together awhile ago.....help...
14 responses
@mrsbrian (1949)
• United States
1 May 07
It sounds to me like the girl is falling for you,if she is with you and talking to you that much plus the fact that she told you she was going to break it off with the other guy.I think I would wait just a bit and see what happens with them because if you are the cause of them breaking up she may resent that and turn against you. Just for now be there for her and talk to her as you are doing if it is ment to be it will happen . good luck.
@mrsbrian (1949)
• United States
1 May 07
well as i said it sounds to me like she is liking you but i stil would just keep on as your doing and wait till they break up,sounds like it wont be long,continue to be good to her and be there when she wants to talk, than when they break it off she will come right to you.
@netizen2007 (67)
• India
4 May 07
If you really love her, then tell her ASAP.. may be right NOW. Go and meet her. And tell her that you love her. It's good if you can tell her in some romantic way but if you can't then just look into her eyes & say - I love you.
Keep looking in her eyes and wait for her response.
If her response is similar to "What???"
Then say - I mean it. I really love you. My life has no meaning without U. I love you. I love you. I don't know what should I say more. But I love you. Please forgive me, I can't stop loving you. (This last line is from Bryan Adam) I love you...
Remember, it's VERY important to tell her that you love her. Else you (and may be she too) will never forgive yourself for not telling her the truth.
And if I am not wrong, she will accept your love.
Go, don't wait.. she is waiting for you.
@netizen2007 (67)
• India
5 May 07
If she doesn't love you but just like you...
If you never say - I love you - then she will always 'like you' only but may be never love you. It's because she is not thinking about you from 'love' angle.
So you have to say - I love you.
Now, she may say - I don't love you. I never saw you from that angle. We are best friends only.
But.. you know what ??? now she know that you love her and she will start thinking about you from 'Love' angle and soon she will start feeling that she is in love with you.
And remember, she want to dump her boyfriend. I know the girls mentality. Most girls don't do that unless they have some other option. So give her an option - YOU as an option. She want your support. So she told you that she want to dump her boyfriend.
Don't wait. Or someone else may do that before you and you may NOT get any second chance to proposed her. Don't wait. Go and tell her that how much you love her.
@4skaisthelimit (412)
• Niger
1 May 07
The best I can advice is to pay attention and give that relationship time.Don't involve in it unless you see that the girl have a feeling for you, you may feel it.
@elshaddai123 (3981)
• Kottayam, India
1 May 07
Wait and see.Let her say she loves you and then only proceed further.May be she likes you as a friend only, if u tell her u love him if she refuses, it will break your heart if u love her earnestly.
@hollowheart (1572)
• India
1 May 07
Hi just try to mark the kind of responses she has for u. Is it that u have to initiate a conversation always or does she take the initiative at times too? How does she react when u joke? Does she laugh. or is it a forceful laugh. Does she respond to mails or messages very frequently. If these are all with a good response i think she has started to like you. But always remember to be frank with her and help her whenever she has any problems, be caring to her. I am sure she cant ignore you.
@hollowheart (1572)
• India
3 May 07
Thats indeed a good news. So in this case I feel she likes you for sure. However may noy be love yet. Dont worry, just be happy and continure to be with her at all times specially when she need s you beside hr. Support her always and show that u care. Try to know more about her and see th difference. Allt he best.
@cradleOFjheffd (920)
• Philippines
6 May 07
Tell her that you have feelings for her. anyway hello and welcome to myLot. I hope you enjoy every time you will spent here.
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@koolraj_inlove (842)
• India
6 May 07
Hey friend it seems you r liking the girl a lot, friend i must tell you that if she find enjoyment being with you then she likes your company,and you must go ahead and tell her your feelings.best of luck for that
@vashstampede992000 (2560)
• Philippines
4 May 07
hi there bro, well you sounds like you do like her a lot even though she already has a bf.
Well you will know if she likes you or not by her actions.
Like, if she really like to be with you, if she's enjoying your company, if sometimes she's telling something to you that has a meaning like liking you too. Somethings like that.
@elshaddai123 (3981)
• Kottayam, India
6 May 07
You are welcome to myLot,diplomatically started a discussion and I hope you will get good response.
Please open you heart to the Lady in waiting, talk sincerely no body is here to do any harm to you, be happy and add good material and be a winner always.
@letzap519 (408)
• Philippines
5 May 07
if you like her then go ahead and ask her... sometimes good attitudes toward a person misunderstood by other people better to ask her bro.. go.. good luck
@joycer (498)
• Sri Lanka
5 May 07
For me, it is better if you will confront her. Tell her how you feel. Ask her how she feels about you. What can she comment about what you have already told her, that you really like her. Ask her if you have a chance on her to be her boyfriend. If you get negative responses from her. You should tell her that she should not change the way she relates with you. You are still the same you, nothing has change except that you care more about her. That you will always be there in case she needs you. Do not expect that she likes you too, because you might get depressed. It's just better that the girl would know that there is someone who cares for her.
@lloydbelleza (1227)
• Philippines
5 May 07
you just need to enjoy her company. if u arent happy of ur present relatiosnhip and u want to corss the line and want her as ur gf then risk it. there is no way u can ever be certain if a girl likes u.. risk is really needed. be brave to tell her what u feel and have the confidence to ask her if she likes u too..
