what exaclty is the girls' psychology????
By vikrampatel
@vikrampatel (16)
India
May 1, 2007 1:33am CST
I mean i am trying to find out the answer of this very common question since i had the ability to understand the things ...but still on the top of this question mark...
do they want love?? do they want affection?? do the want commitment?? do they want dedication?? or what they exactly want...
recently i have gone through my break off with ny girlfriend...and simply i have gonna mad to look for the reason...everything ...every possible deal i made for her...i love her with each of my breaths...i lose my contacts..i lose my career..just to get into her life and to make her happy...everybody around me could see my 110% commitment to her...
but at the critical point of my life she asked me to give her a break...i mean i was just speechless...it was the biggest shock of my life i ever had...and it forced me to think the about this universal question mark...
please please...share your views..your thoughts...frankly..it would definitely help me out...
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2 responses
@psyche49f (2502)
• Philippines
1 May 07
What could be the possible reasons? a third party is involved, or she just simply fell out of love for whatever reason. . .the possibilities are endless.. .Did you ever find out why? Did you talk to her? Did you discover anything that made her break up with you? I can see that you're really down and shocked over the break-up. Break-ups are painful, and coping with it is not easy. I also experienced a break-up when I was younger, and mind you. . it was never easy to mend a broken heart. I am a woman, and those two things I mentioned earlier are two possibilities: she fell in love with another man, or there is something in you she did not like. The best person who could tell you is her. Do know the reason so you can start to go through a healing process.
@vikrampatel (16)
• India
1 May 07
yes..i completely agree with you...and in this case...there are plenty of third parties...its not like that i have not talked to her...or did not discussed about us...but every time i tried to raise any issue...response was shocking...like i have made the mistakes to ask for something what i was not able to adjust with...
@vikrampatel (16)
• India
1 May 07
was i wrong if i asked her to keep a bit of distance from those guys whor are interested in her...is it really needed to be so much informal to them...and she accepts the thing that they dont have any value in her life...then what need to give them so much space...
@vikrampatel (16)
• India
1 May 07
yes she felt for smone else...and the reason she gives tht this was bcoz of our frequent fights...can it be a reason to like someone else...which relation dont have such disputes...she said that it was for sometime and she and her that friend decided to dump those feelings...is it sufficient...how i would be able to regain that much of trust as i had earlier...
@DarlingGirl (745)
• United States
1 May 07
YOU should never give up your friends or your job to be with a girl. And likewise, a girl shouldn't give up the same for a boy.
You have painted yourself into a corner, and now that she is the only true thing in your life, you're probably smothering her.
It's either that or she didn't like you as much as she thought, or she's found someone else.
Women do want love. Thye do want dedication, and commitment. It's just got to be with the right guy.
Stay with it, eventually you will find someone who loves you for the person that you are, likes your friends, and won't expect you to switch or lose your job.
You'll be okay. Next time will be easier.
