have you been in love with someone who you don't expect to fall in love w/?

i did and now were on our 3rd year of being husband and wife :) he was one of my textmates way back whom i got to know through our family friend, one of his best buddies in college. our relationship was more of friendship because he tells me everything about his relationship. i was his shoulder to cry on, a friend in every way. i didn't think that i'd fall for him because he was the exact opposite of someone i'd like to be with. i prefer serious people. he was wacky and noisy and everything that i don't like. and after a year of being textmates, we met and as they say... the rest is history.

Yes I have, and I am still after more than 8 years

i've never been in that situation. anyway, congratulations to you!