Mother or wife??!Come on guys...now what?!!LOL!!

It's a very tough question if taken seriously:-) I love my mother for all the trouble she was into because of me, bearing me in her womb, bringing me up in tough circumstances, because of her love, selflessness for me and all that she did for me since my childhood. I love my wife for her love for me. For the care she takes while putting herself in pain. for being just mine, filling my life with joy, hope and happiness. I also love her because she is mother of my child. So, it's really a hard thing to choose between the two of them. Though i'll feel happy for saving one but definitely feel guilty for not saving the other. If there is any chance of saving both even if it costs me my life, i'll do that. but if the only option is to save either my mother or wife, i may choose my wife. You know, I know that my mother will also order me to choose my wife because of her love for me, my wife and my child. she has spent a great deal of her life and considering my wife a mother herself of a little child still to be taken care of, me and my mother both will choose my wife to be saved.

Hello,augustta,it is very difficult to answer,as i cannot really swim well,I think i may have to ask someone to help me first if I was on the sea. The answer will depend on who is asking me,if my lover is asking me, i will tell him i save him first.Yeah,it is lying:)

Mammma...i cant swim. May be i will be the one what they both must save:-))))

My wife. I chose her in the first place, None of us chose who our mother is.

I say let them both drown this way I am safe in both area's, wait maybe not , Oh crap what did I do. I guess I would get some peace.

wow a tough question to answer. basically if i will choose between my mother and my wife i will choose my wife. i dont know.. its subconscious..

I'll save, who is at close distance. and definitely at that time you wont find your emotions with you and anybody in this world(with a healthy brain) will do the same(if he's got the courage to jump into ocean........

There is no right or wrong answer. I would save my wife since she is the one I am now living with and dedicated to serve. Or, I could jump in and all 3 of us go to the bottom.

Well it maybe a tough one but hey woudl both drown by the time i chosse so what the point of asking and if your mom asks you say her adn if g/f/ wife asks it is her

Augustta how can you do this to us..Lol. I know i could never choose, i probably will throw them both to the ocean..Lol. Let me start with the women side. OK you know that i am a women, but this is easier for me so i will answer that first and after that try to answer a real situation. If i could save my mother or my partner, i think i would save my mother, i do not think i could deal with losing her, no one is going to nag me and take care of me and blame me and..well you see what i mean. But then again i think i will put them both in the front of the shore and will count on that the one of them is going to throw the other one to the ocean, now this is a more real situation. Then i am going to save my partner..LOl. Cause if i know my mother she is going to push him to the ocean. LOl. Easy solution or a cruel one. ahh?

Its indeed a very interesting discussion... I admire ur way of thinking... We just take this lightly right now.. But imagine.!! if this happens in real life!!! Anyways.. i'm not yet married.. I still have some more years to marry.. So whenever i find my mate, the first question i will ask her is that whether she knows swimming or not.. lolzz.. I will only marry with that girl who is a swimmer.. especially a lifeguard.. :D So when both fall into the sea, my wife will save my mom... And atlast i will have to just watch and enjoy the moment..!!! :D Howzzzthat????

This one seems to have left me speechless, which is unusual for me. If there was a fence near where they fell, I would sit on it for a while thinking. ;-) Then I would jump in with a something that floats and give it to the first one I came to, then swim to get the other. But now that I know all this could happen, I think I will tell them both to go and get swimming lessons.. :-)

This is really a no-brainer for me. My wife is my life partner, and my emotional and physical bond with her is light-years beyond that with my mother. People have to stop feeling responsible for others just because they are "family". Everyone walks their own path, but a partner is part of you in a profound way. So it would be my wife a million times over if that decision had to be made.

Well.A tough and funny questions here..Maybe i'll save my mother firstly..i just have only one mother,if i lost her,anyway,i cant get one more..but for wife,i can!because i have no wife now..so i dare to say that.hehehe.

This is so wrong, but men, seriously, choose your wives if you really love them.

Well, If it was my husband or my mother..I will save my mother first.. I am not a good swimmer but I can try to save her.. She is very old and will need me she deserves my help more than my husband who I know can save himself..In case he fails to save himself then I guess it was meant to be..

Wow.. I'm not sure I'd want to ask my boyfriend just because I know how much he cares for his parents, so I'd probably draw the short straw. :S

Mother or Wife really a tricky situation, one who gave birth and one who is gonna stay for the rest of the life and take care of. I don't want to lose any of them cause both of them love me. I would better not select one here and discriminate the other. They are of equal importance to me.

Oh my god, I beg you understand us. As a man, both mother and wife are my love. I have the responsibility to take care of them. If this goddamed thing is really happen, I would say that I will jump into the ocean,too. Ha, ha, ha

i first save my mom, because she is my MOM.. simply...