Does it make me a bad person if........???
By desimanero
@desimanero (419)
United States
May 2, 2007 12:58am CST
Does it make me a bad person if i dont really like kids too much but im a mother?Its not tthat i dont like kids its just i prefer not to babysit other peoples kids or have other peoples kids over at my house.I love the crap out of my kids.I never really even wanted kids but now that i have 2 i couldnt imagine my life without them.I feel bad sometimes cuz i feellike that about other kids.Is there other mothers out there that dont really like kids?
2 responses
@astnusaresources (312)
• Malaysia
2 May 07
This thing goes same to my wife. She really love our 2 sweet daughter but not others kid. This bacause when she scold them for doing wrong, their mother will do some stu*id face to my wife.. Do you thing its manner.
@desimanero (419)
• United States
2 May 07
yeah i see what youre saying.I guess its cuz my kids are trained what to touch and what not to touch in my house since i have a lot of expensive things.And other kids just come in and start touching things.Like the other day my friends daughter started jumping on my couches!!!!I was so irritated but i couldnt yell at her cuz she isnt my kid.
@Gemmygirl1 (2867)
• Australia
2 May 07
I'm a little the same, especially with my own nieces :(
I know they're family & all but 1 lot (3 & 1 on the way) is very feral - they misbehave, they're never dressed in clean clothes & are always filthy. I don't like to be around them coz they are always naughty - i wont let them in my home coz they make messes & break things.
The other lot (2 with 1 on the way) they're not too bad but they're kind of bratty, they get rough with things here & it makes it hard for me to tolerate them.
I think it's normal when it comes to other people's kids, especially if you have raised your own & know how you want them to behave & have good manners but no-one else's kids are as nice, clean, behaved or polite as your own kids are. So NO, i don't think you're a bad person at all!
