son or daughter ?

well i do have a son right now. and if i would have to go back in time and be made to choose if i could have a son or daughter--- i would still prefer having a son.Discounting the fact that i only have one brother, i've always have this notion that boys are tough and strong. i believe that when i am old and sick he'll be capable of carrying me (literally) plus that cowboy image in them. while the concept of having a daughter scares a bit. as i would have to be more cautious in dealing with her--- teach her to be lady-like all the time (with poise and elegance), and a lot of girls' stuff. im ain't good at that.