Your friends` advices
By magica
@magica (3707)
Bulgaria
May 2, 2007 6:03am CST
How often you are looking for advices of your friends about the problems in your relation? And how often you advice your friends about theirs?
And where the thin limit is between advice and direct intervention in somebody`s relation? And how do you cope with these friends who allways want to advice you, to exist in your private place with your partner?
3 responses
@Marie2473 (8512)
• Sweden
2 May 07
I have a friend that I confide almost anything to and she to me. We ask for advice all the time, but there are some things that we do not talk about. Like details of our sexlife and things like that.
@laila675 (528)
• United Arab Emirates
2 May 07
I seldom ask for some advice to my friends whenever i got some problem with my partner. Only when i can't hold on to my feelings or can't fix it alone. Coz i don't want them to be involved, as far as my partner is concern.
About my friends, asking for my advices, i only give them advices whenever they call on me or asks me as i don't want to interfere with thier relationship and problems.
I guess by giving respect to each other will set the limit for both myself and my friends in our own personal life.
how to cope up with friends who always want to advice me to exist in my private place with my partner - do you mean these friends always wanted to be part of your relationship and you don't want her to be part of your personal problem? if it so, and if i could tell her straightly without hurting her/his feelings that sometimes you just need some privacy. or just let her/him talk but it's in your control if the advices will be good for you.
