Why I lost my love?
By Kristien
@Kristien (78)
China
May 2, 2007 12:37pm CST
Thanks for all friends who reponsed me for my topics, and I noticed many friends asked me the same question, 'you didn't mention the reason your boyfriend left you', so I start a new topic to tell you why, hoping more person can give me your advice, thank you one more time.
In fact, as early as last summer, he wanted to end our relationship, but at that time, he didn't graduate yet, so he can't leave the city, and I'm not healthy enough, he didn't leave me, and never said words hurting me any longer. But he always reminded me that it was most impossible he would leave me finally, and once he said so, I was sad, and tried my best to improve our relationship. During the peacetime, we go well along with each other, all our friends were envious of us, so, gradually, I believed that we would not say goodbye to each other, and I was just waiting for his graduation, then went to Shanghai with him.
But from this March, one month before he went to Shanghai, he asked me not to go to that city with him, because I had a job here, if I go there with him, I must search for a new job, he just joined the new company, and the salary is little, so the pressure would be too heavy. I thought what he said was reasonable, so I agreed, I planned to go to Shanghai the next year.
But quickly, 7 days holiday comes, I've not been stay with him for more than half a month, so I bought a ticket to his city, and he knew it. And I can feel his happiness just before I tole hime that I've got the ticket. At the moment I told him I've got the ticket, he changed his attitude. I remembered that I was so excited when I got the ticket, so I called hime told him it, he was not excited at all, I asked why, he said, I had to find somewhere to live for you. I'm afraid to be a burden to others, so I asked him whether he didn't want me to go there? He said yeah, Oh my God! You almost can't image what I looked like, then, he ended our relationship.
The next day, I asked him why, he told me that not everything has a reason, yes, maybe the reason is too simple, he doesn't love me any longer. You know the wholeqstory now, what do you wanna tell me, or you can mail me, cherub_q@sohu.com
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