For those who are brokenhearted or in a relationship.....a must read!

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Guys, want to share this to you (got from my mail).. If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away. If he does'nt want you, nothing can make him stay. Stop making excuses for a man and his behavior. Allow your intuition (or spirit) to save you from heartache. Stop trying to change yourselves for a relationship that's not mean to be. Slower is better. If a relationship ends because the man was not treating you as you deserve, then heck no, you can't "be friends". A friend would'nt mistreat a friend. Dont settle. If you feel like he is stringing you along, then he probably is. Don't stay because you think "it will get better". You'll be mad at yourself a year later for staying when things are not better. Avoid men who've got a bunch of children by a bunch of different women. He did'nt marry them when he got them pregnant. Why would he treat you any differently? You cannot change a man's behavior. Change comes from within. Don't EVER make him feel he is more important than you are..even if he has more education or in a better job. Do not make him into a quasi-God. He is a man, nothing more, nothing less. Never let a man define who you are. Never borrow someone else's man. A man will only treat you the way you ALLOW him to treat you. You should not be the one doing all the bending...compromise is a two-way street. You need time to heal between relationships..there is nothing cute about baggage..deal with your issues before pursuing a new relationship. You should never look for someone to COMPLETE you..a relationship consists of two WHOLE individuals...look for someone complimentary..not supplementary. Dating is fun..even if he does'nt turn out to be Mr. Right! Make him miss you sometimes..when a man always know where you are, and you're always readily available to him -- he takes it for granted. Don't fully commit to a man who does'nt give you everything that you need. Keep him in your radar but get to know others.