these days,i always dream nightmares,i feel very depressed

China
May 3, 2007 3:09am CST
these days,i have nightmares about my parents,one night,in my dreams ,i saw many people standing in front of one river,my mum was also be there,but her face was very white,at that moment,i did`t know how to discribe my true feeling,i can`t help crying in the dreams.then i waken up.and another night,i also dreamd about my father,a bad news about him from a strange thug,i feel very bad,then i waken up.i don`t know why i dreamd such dreams.i am working in a strange city now.in the end of the last year i resigned from the company in my hometown,dispite opposition from my parents.they felt very sad.but i persisted with my decision. i came to the strange city,now i have found one job,and i have made some new friends,at the first days,i felt happy,but when i recollected my parents` attitude about my decision ,i would feel depressed.but now my parents have accepted the truth. i hope my parents live healthy,i wish them hanppiness on their old ages.if they live well,i can work in this strange city without worries.
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5 responses
• India
8 May 07
donot worry they are only nightmares and ur parents are happy and live well if u true lover to ur parents nothing will happen to ur parents and the GOD will see all other things.
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• China
8 May 07
thanks for your blessing and kindness !best wishes!
@bindishah (2062)
• India
6 May 07
Looks like maybe you are just either feeling guilty or angry with your parents for opposing you in your decision to move to another place. You need to just sit and talk out your feelings with them. Coz very often dreams are just a manifestation of what we feel subconsciously. I am sure once you ahve a clear mind about your parents accepting your decision and being happy with it, you'll stop having negative dreams about them.
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• China
8 May 07
what you said are very well.i have the same opinion with you .thanks for your response.
@destroyer (784)
• Pakistan
4 May 07
Dont worry they are only nightmares and mean nothing in reality. As far as i can tell by reading your entire description of events, its your conscience acting up cause you are feeling guilty of leaving your parents and coming to this new city. You'll start to feel much better with passage of time when you make new friends and go out on dates and stuff! it just a matter of settling in! I am glad you have such loving sentiments about your parents!! cause in reality our parents only want whats best for us!!
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• China
8 May 07
thanks for your response,these days i feel better,and also have dreamed a happy dream about my parents,in the dream we talk happily by the phone,they smiled at me.During the May day,i took some short trip with my friends.i feel very relaxed.thank you!
@lynboobsy11 (11343)
• Philippines
4 May 07
Dreams and nightmares are only in our mind specially before sleep thinking or imagining things the one that seen on t.v's,stories etc. But just a little advise for to loose your fear is to pray a lot to have faith that your nightmare is just only a dream. Have faith to HIM and don't be afraid leave your fears to HIM.
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• China
8 May 07
thanks for your advice.i have done these like what you said.these days i feel better.thank you!
@hollowheart (1572)
• India
8 May 07
Hi Jennifer dont worry and always remember uhave a friend beside u. If u r good and right nothing bad would touch u. I understand that u saw a few bad dreams. Ur reaction is natural. It is a picture or representation of ur love towards ur parents. Dont worry, they are fine and are happy with u and ur job. Remember u must do anything to keep them happy. So dont be depressed or cry as that would give them pain and u need to be lot more strong. Pray to god daily and offcourse we all are there to help u travel the good path of life. I know even the good path sheds blood, but yet we must be brave enough to travel down that road as God would hold ur hand if u r brave and grant ur wishes to keep ur parents happy.
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