HIV/AIDS Test before marriage?
By moneymoney
@moneymoney (789)
India
50 responses
@kpfingaz (1027)
• Saint Vincent And The Grenadines
22 Oct 06
Dude no one is finding your discussion sbecause you only place one tag. Try to place 4-5 subject related tags in the future. I'm helping you out on this by retaggin your discussions.
About this question I think this should be sone long before the decision to get married is made. Then they should stick to that one partner. This is what they recommend anyway.
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@moneymoney (789)
• India
22 Oct 06
Thank you about the tagging thing, how do multiple tag it?please tell me.
Well, comingto your response, I don't think it should be implimented long before the mariage. We can't guarantee that anyone out of the two won't resolve to cheating or look for a hooker. So, how can that help? I would reccomend a double check before tying the knot(indian marriage). If both of them haven't really done anything wrong, they should not have any problem with it. Hope you get my point. And thanx again.....
@kpfingaz (1027)
• Saint Vincent And The Grenadines
22 Oct 06
About the tagging - When you get past he post response box, The tag box comes up. Enter 4-5 tags separated by a comma and a space and submit.
I won't disagree with that because AIDS is a serious disease and as much precaution must be taken toensure you don't get the disease.
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@moneymoney (789)
• India
22 Oct 06
Thank you. I'll multiple tag my topics from now onwards. Can it be done to topics already started by me? Like, Can I tag them again?
About Aids, right. I totally agree....
Thanks for your response.....
@ArsonCuff (3114)
• United States
24 Oct 06
Sure if they feel the need...like one of them was a dirty back-alley pon star beforehand..ha..generally speaking though I do not see it as a custom or habit ones should go through..I think most people know each other quite well or intimatly before they reach the stage of marriage.
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@ArsonCuff (3114)
• United States
24 Oct 06
well if there is doubt...why the heck would someone be consdiering marriage anyway?...100% trust is what it is all about...no granted if a test is what someone feels they need then guess bring it up, could go one of two ways: love conquers all and the tests will be complied to or the party being asked to take said test will become offended and say up yours.
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@moneymoney (789)
• India
24 Oct 06
The doubt/desparation could exist in one of them. It is possible. Very rarely you find couples where both of them are happy. Mostly one of them compromises for the other and acts happy.....100% trust is what everyone hopes for. But very few get it.......
@moneymoney (789)
• India
22 Oct 06
thank you for responding, I appreciate your opinion.....Good luck.
@moneymoney (789)
• India
23 Oct 06
But going for the test is their personal decision. We cannot force anyone to get tested and - "reveal their identity"......anyways, Also, listing them would not reduce the problem I think.....
@Cindyh2k (308)
• United States
22 Oct 06
I think that it is important for everyone to be tested - especially those who are at high risk for contracting the disease. And, I think that it is very important for people to be tested before marriage - that is one surprise that should not be thrust upon a life partner, and the surprise element can be eliminated by testing.
@britishyip (1609)
• India
28 Oct 06
m strongly agree with moneymoney.. we shd check aids no matter it's an arranged or a love marriage.. coz these days guys n girls are changing partners very frequently..
its strongly recommanded to have blood group matching as well as aids test..
@moneymoney (789)
• India
28 Oct 06
Matching blood groups may be secondary, but I feel Aids test is important. Thanks for agreeing with me britishyip
@MichelleLDevon (828)
• United States
28 Oct 06
absolutely! I think everyone who is sexually active should be tested regularly, no matter what. Early intervention can save lives!
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@moneymoney (789)
• India
28 Oct 06
Thanks. And the ones who are sexually active sould come forward themselves for such things. There is nothing to be ashamed of right? This shows that they care for the future of their husbands/wives/children etc etc......
@nithinchinni (2307)
• India
24 Oct 06
i support because they can live peacefully with out having any tension whether the other person is having aids or not....here in case of love marriages this is not necessary coz the person is aware of the other but in the case of arranged marriages this is essencial.
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@moneymoney (789)
• India
25 Oct 06
Thanks for opinion. You seem to be answering half-heartedly.....Anyways happy mylotting......
@Billabongbabe (348)
• United States
24 Oct 06
i dont think it should be a mandatory thing but for safety reasons it should be taken care of. If they do have something, they are going to want to treat it the best way possible and as soon as possible.
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@kcbabez14 (967)
• United States
24 Oct 06
I do but then i don't.. becuase it's like your saying that if you have HIV/AIDS then i'm not going to marry you and that's just dirty!
@moneymoney (789)
• India
25 Oct 06
I never said that I'll not marry just because you have Aids. I'll get her cured, treated, whaatever, but will be careful not to get her pregnant. I'll adopt an orphan instead. I'll not lose the one I love just because she has Aids. Thanks for responding.........
@moneymoney (789)
• India
25 Oct 06
If you love someone, some of us hide facts like these from them. How can you dal with them? Anyways, thanks for posting.......
@maya_n_bennett (4687)
• United States
24 Oct 06
I think every single couple that are getting married should get tested for it. Even people just dating, they should get tested too. Sometimes people are not honest to tell what they got and partner can get whatever others got and make a mess. when I got married, we have to go and get ours tested. We knew that both of us didnt have to worry about it but you never know so it was good to get it tested.
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@moneymoney (789)
• India
25 Oct 06
YEs. I think getting tested by their own will, is more better. Atleast you get the respect of your partner.......Thanks for responding........
@i_agree_but (1183)
• United Arab Emirates
24 Oct 06
It is fit for western people, not for others. Becz, once you have accepted this kind test means, you have accepted the immoral behavior of your partner before marriage, your only problem is hiv/aids. It doen't sound good.
@moneymoney (789)
• India
24 Oct 06
Well, a negative answer at last. But trust me friend, there are people who ask for such tests before marriage. Especially girls ask for the tests. If I were to marry a girl, I would definitely ask her to get tested. It would let her know more about my character and choose if she is correct for me or not. Thank you for your opinion mate, I respect that....
@moneymoney (789)
• India
24 Oct 06
Itz for their own good, right, but if they don't couldn't say what might happen.........Thanks for posting....
@nanhegujral (4632)
• India
24 Oct 06
yes ... at least for a safe future this test should be made compulsary.
