what have you learned from ur past relationships..........?

very true..everyone is different in relationships. I have been on both sides, I have been the one who closes off emotionally and the one who expresses feelings freely! In my experiences, if both people are not willing to communicate then it won't work. I don't go into a reltionship thinking its forever, I think that's a jinx!!!! I agree, no expectations is the way to go so you don't end up huting yourself!

I know how to speak and I speak. Im not the type of person who just keep quiet... When Im in a relationship... I give my very best to make things work. I show all the love that I can give... So just in case things went wrong and we have to go on separate ways... I would have no regret. From one relationship to another... I learned more and more how to balance my feelings and the feelings of my partner. Ive learned that although we love each other we are still different person, we were raised differently and we grow in different family and environment... so we have different moods and point of view... We have to respect our partners feelings and dreams...We should not expect too much from our partners... or else we'll ended up disappointed...

I've learned a few things from my past relationships. I learned what I really want for a relationship and from him, and what I want to give in return. I learned to never keep things bottled up because when they do come out it's not all to great.

I think the most valuable lesson I have learned from my relationships is giving my partner the space to be as she is. Not trying to mould her into somebody I think she *should* be and always telling sharing the truth. :)

I have learned that I am not as bad as I think I am - I have learned that there is only person you can trust and get things done with and thatis me only - people are whackos out there - I am one of them I am sure from anothers point of view but from where I stand I feel and think I am more sane than I give myself credit