Why do you keep a diary/journal?

Philippines
May 3, 2007 11:03am CST
I've been keeping a diary since I was about 12 years old. It started when my dad gave me this black notebook that has a button that can be closed. I didn't know what to do with it so I thought I'd write what happened that day. It all began with that. I'm not really sure why I keep a diary. I guess I just want to be able to look back at what has happened before, how I thought and stuff. I want to record everything that happened to me, even the mundane things. I was thinking before that maybe when I pass away, my diaries would be my connection to my kids or whoever is left behind. That way they'd know me, really know me. How about you?
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• United States
15 May 07
I started keeping a journal when I was eleven and, at age 32, I'm still writing. I threw away all my journals from age eleven to age eighteen (it was a large collection because I wrote FREQUENTLY) and I regret doing that SO much. This stifled my writing until I was twenty-two. I've kept all the journals from then on, though, and have filled about eleven large hardback journals. I'm working in a spiral bound notebook for the first time since I was in highschool and it's bringing back so many fond writing memories.
• Philippines
17 May 07
Wow, that is amazing. You've been writing for that long! I hope when I reach your age I'd still be writing. That is so sad. Why did you throw them away? But still, you've got over 10 years worth of journals. That's a pretty big collection. I don't write frequently so so far, I've only filled up 4 notebooks. I'm halfway on my fifth. This is from when I was 12 until now. Wow, you really inspired me to write more. :) Thanks!
• United States
17 May 07
I'm so glad I could inspire you to write more! That's such a great feeling! I threw them away because I was with a boy at the time that read everything and then I later found out my mother read everything. I felt horribly violated and like I couldn't trust anyone, so I threw them all away in an effort to protect myself from feeling that way again.
@xParanoiax (6987)
• United States
10 May 07
My journal's online..and it started as just a fanciful thing. It was rather silly, what I recorded in it, nothing terribly important. But as time began to fly by I began to need it. It was once my only safe outlet of expression, a kind of therupy to get me through the days. Nowadays I keep it partly to let only a select few know what's happening in my life. Oh, other people on the internet can view it -- I've more than twnety people subscribed to it and I can get up to a thousand views per day..but it's simply something to read for everyone else. Often there's stuff in there which only means stuff for me and the friends who know it exists. It's still therupy, it's still something I wouldn't be better off without. I like recording the daily happenings. Mundane and not..though I usually feel less comfortable about the un-mundane stuff..it does usually get recorded. Plus..I think easiest there. The thoughts in my head flow more smoothly than if I'd simply try to describe them to a living person. *smiles* I dunno, it makes me think about the what if's of after I'm dust lol. Like.."What if someone takes the care to study that journal, research into the life I lived..and decided to make a proper recording of it: a book." Just one of them things I guess.
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• United States
22 May 07
The editing thing can be a pain, but maybe you could get it so instead of editing the ideas and thoughts..you could stick to grammer or something? That's what I eventually ended up doing..probably what turned me into a grammer/spelling freak lol. I know what it feels like worryin' what people'll think from reading..and gossip SUCKS. Though it's sorta morphed into worry'n if an enemy reads it, so I put the most 'dangerous' (lol) entries on 'protected', which has it so that only the people I want to view it, to view it. (Thank God for excellent webdesigners these days). But those entries are mostly only a handful every year. I know I'm a controversial subject, lol..I just figure if people have a problem with what I write that they can sod off, 'cause they don't have to read my journal..and what people think of me? Doesn't really matter to me.
• Philippines
17 May 07
Exactly! Lol. Sometimes I also think about that. You know, just day dreaming and stuff. What if one day I'd be important enough that people would take interest in my life? My journals would be pretty helpful for them to know me. Sometimes when I write I think along those lines, like I think about the people who are gonna read it, so I tend to edit myself before even writing so that's just the down side 'cause I think it's better to just get the raw material out there. I do that in my solid journal. I also have an online journal. It's a bit less personal though because people I know view it and gossip could fly...
@AmbiePam (92375)
• United States
5 May 07
Up until I was 18, I kept a diary most of the time. I too wanted to pass them on to my kids and grandkids, so they would learn from my mistakes and also my joys. I find I cann't write about it as well as I'd like, so when I do want to record something for a diary, I like to do a tape recorded diary. I haven't done that in a long time either, but when I do, I feel like I'm expressing myself better.
• Philippines
6 May 07
Wow, that's cool. A recorded diary! I tried "audioblogging" once, but I'm really not great with spoken words. Really. And I kind of hate my voice. Lol! Thanks for replying. :)
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@AmbiePam (92375)
• United States
6 May 07
Oh, I know! I listen to the play back and think, is that REALLY my voice? LOL
@CopyPaper (228)
• Philippines
26 Jun 07
I too, been keeping diary since high school but too bad, I don't know where did I place it since I left home for about 8 years ago and getting my college degree. As of now, I've just updates my journal when I have a time.
• Philippines
15 May 07
Ive been keeping a diary since i was in first year highschool,so that's almost 9 years ago. It helps a lot because you can vent out problems and experiences in it whenever you don't feel like sharing to other people. And the second reason as to why I keep a diary is because when i get old, it could help me look back and reminisce about the things that ive done and experience during my early years.. :p
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• Philippines
17 May 07
Yes, definitely, I completely agree with you. Sometimes when I have nothing to do I read through my previous diaries and just laugh out loud. It's amazing how the way we think changes in just a couple of years! I laugh at the the way I view things back then. They are just so silly. And all those boyband crushes and stuff. It's quite embarrassing what's in them, but it's really fun to go back to those days.
19 May 07
I wish that I had done the same now, it would be lovely to read about all my wonderful memories. But I am writing a journal now of my memories, and hope to leave them for my grandchildren and great grandchildren. Being of the age when most start getting interested in GENEOLOGY, I thought how wonderful it would be to find a letter or diary/journal left to me by my Grand parents, so that I would get to know them more, and how their lives were, etc., So yes I would try and bequeath these wonderful links with the past for your children and childrens children. Nice one!
@bhawnam (1436)
• India
19 May 07
i keep my diary to write things that come to my mind and i cannot share them with anyone else... also to keep a track of all the importent incidents in my life.. as my memory is not very good in this matter.. :)
@thefuture (1749)
• Nigeria
19 May 07
Wow permit me to say you are one of the best record keepers in the world. I like keeping records cos it will be of great help in the future whenever am in need of it. Thanks