Kiss - You Keep your Eyes Open Or Closed while kissing your Partner
By kukkad
@kukkad (511)
India
May 3, 2007 12:31pm CST
I was wondering how many people in here are like me.
When I kiss........ i keep my eyes open. I am those types who's a very good observer.... lol. And, as such, the being a good observer aspect stands good for me even while I kiss. It lets me know how my partner feels about the kiss and being kissed.
I know there would be a majority of people who keep their eyes closed while kissing. Actually, they say........ its a natural instinct and your eyes automatically get closed when you kiss or are being kissed. They co-relate this to the pleasure aspect. That, the eye lids have a lot of pleasure points and keeping them closed during kisses....... can increase the pleasure that the kissing couple get.
But....... I have never been that way.
I would suggest that when you kiss your partner for the first time........ or when your relation is new....... u better kiss with your eyes open. That way, you can know if your partner is enjoying your kiss or not.........
Do you kiss with your eyes open ?
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40 responses
@touchnshine (2821)
• India
3 May 07
Sometimes, I close my eyes, because it feels kind of natural. I guess kissing is so passionate, you close your eyes so you can block out other senses, so you can purely focus on this passionate, wonderful loving kiss
:)
But sometimes I like to keep them open, because I just can't keep my eyes off my boyfriend :D
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@sumofalltears (3988)
• United States
3 May 07
My eyes are always closed no matter whom I am kissing, since I do not have a significant other...lol..:}....I don't know if I could kiss with my eyes open, it would seem really strange to me, especially since if the kiss was really good I would keep my eyes closed for a while afterward too. I guess to savor the moment?
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@MsTickle (25180)
• Australia
10 May 07
What is the point of keeping your eyes open? what do you see? What is it that distinguishes wether or not your partner is experiencing something nice? To me, when I kiss, I want to focus on the kiss...not a peck, I'm talking a deeper kiss between lovers or would be lovers of course. If I have my eyes open it's because I'm not enjoying the experience or I'm uncomfortable with it. If a person has their eyes open, they arenot kissing properly in my opinion.
@VotreAmie (3028)
• United States
8 May 07
I do the opposite my friend. Most of the time I keep my eyes closed. I see how it is important to kiss with keeping your eyes open in a new relationship to see if the person is really enjoying your kiss. I will try that with my husband!
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@robert19ph (4577)
• Philippines
4 May 07
Hello kukkad, it is very impolite to kiss with your eyes open. What happen if your partner also open her eyes? I did these experiment before and it's not good. I have the feeling that I'm kissing a person I don't know. As you say, it is natural to close your eyes. So just go with the flow and act natural. It's good to experiment once in a while but should not be done always.
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@wisedragon (2325)
• Philippines
4 May 07
My eyes are usually closed while kissing but every now and then I would take a peek just to see how she's doing.
I think the reason why the eyes instinctively close is in order to maximize the sensation on the mouth.
@amar_sandy1987 (1876)
• India
4 May 07
i can say that those who open their eyes while kissing thye dont love their partner from their true heart
@jencai (3412)
• Philippines
4 May 07
When we do it, I didn't notice that my eyes closes. It just happen, maybe because I wanted to feel the love we're both communicating with one another. I try to open it one time and I guess it's not a good thing to do. I don't know why, I would prefer to have it in closed eyes. This way, I enjoy most the love we're sharing.
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@go4amitshah (1005)
• India
4 May 07
when i kiss i keep open my eye i see my parner
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@di1indilin (802)
• India
4 May 07
If you kiss with your eyes open you will start to get dizzy because your partners face will be so near and it will be all blured.
@Gaurav_Aggarwal (136)
• India
4 May 07
i think it depends on the person....u should try both ways and then choose which way u like .........
@megaplaza (1441)
• Nigeria
4 May 07
i kiss with my eyes open, i try kissing with my eyes closed.
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@jhoanee (598)
• Philippines
4 May 07
i cant imagine my eyes are open while kissing. i guess i was one of the many people who closed eyes while kissing. i guess i cant feel pleasure if i open my eyes.
just a question do u still open your eyes until now even if your in a relationship long enough? or u just do that while the relationship is new or the first kiss with a new relationship?
@kavinpurams (184)
• India
4 May 07
See i had never got an exprience from my partner because iam not married. i apreciat your observity its good i think i will also adopet this police when i got a partner. I think it will soon happend at that i will form you what happend when i give kisse to her.
@federickp (607)
• India
4 May 07
i have read somewhere that you should keep your eyes closed while kissing. That ways you can really feel your partner. And i have also heard that if your partner kisses with open eyes he is not kissing from bottom of his heart.!!
LOL..you girlfriend knows this..! ? ha ha
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@akusipami (22)
• Philippines
4 May 07
at first i kiss with my eyes closed..
but now.. i kiss with my eyes open.. its good though.
