LOVE

Pakistan
October 21, 2006 4:29pm CST
why people fight in love ?
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14 responses
@BuffMom (2206)
• United States
22 Oct 06
I think its perfectly normal. its not cause they cant stand each other. for some reason we fight the most with the ones we love.
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@Cindyh2k (308)
• United States
22 Oct 06
I agree - and I think the reason this happens is because we actually care about what is going on in this persons life. If we didn't love the person, we wouldn't care and probably would not waste the energy it takes to fight.
@Tanya8 (1733)
• Canada
22 Oct 06
Stress can cause people to fight when they're in love.
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@Cindyh2k (308)
• United States
22 Oct 06
Stress, especially stress caused by financial problems and children - are the most common causes of fights for couples.
• United States
22 Oct 06
Fights can be good sometimes. I have been told many times that couples need to fight here and there, its not good if they never fight, it usually means one of them is biting their tongue about something.....
@kokopelli (4842)
• United States
21 Oct 06
mostly because of demands and expectations unmet, promises broken, and simply coz of personal differences & idiosyncrasies.
@Cindyh2k (308)
• United States
22 Oct 06
That can cause lots of fights - people not keeping promises and not respecting one another. Good points!
• India
21 Oct 06
they dont no what is love
@istanto (8548)
• Indonesia
22 Oct 06
tell me your opinion about love.
@kittu007 (946)
• United States
27 Nov 06
Yes I do...
• United States
21 Oct 06
Good question, sometimes it just seems toxic but most time it can be healthy as long as done fairly. We not talking about physically right?
@mona123 (911)
• United States
22 Oct 06
Stress, especially stress caused by financial problems and children - are the most common causes of fights for couples.
@Cindyh2k (308)
• United States
22 Oct 06
There is a fine line between love and hate - and sometimes, the two cross over - a couple can be soooo in love one moment, and hate one another the next. Usually, people who love the hardest, hate the hardest - and the key is to find the secret to surviving the two.
@hazeru3 (136)
• United States
21 Oct 06
I'm not sure, there are times when I love my husband more then anything:) and times I want to Kill him.......we dont fight too ften but when we do, its usually bad, but then there is make up time:):)
• United States
21 Oct 06
good question but not sure. i don't fight too much with my love but we have our moments
• United States
21 Oct 06
People fight either because they are in love or don't like each other or their opinions on something.
• Netherlands
22 Oct 06
People have an idea of what they want, and when they do not achieve this they are unhappy and may wantto take it out on the other for not living up to their standards. Another thing, is sometimes people make their own assumptions on how a person is. They may have some complex fantasy over it and when realization hits them they are left sad and disappointed. Some people, when they experience disappointment do not blame themselves as they should, but push the blame on the other. That is why they fight. Often lovers fight because they are venting frustration.
• India
22 Oct 06
love is life