How do you keep the fire glowing in your marriage... or relationship

United States
May 3, 2007 2:01pm CST
what do you do
4 responses
missladycc
@missladycc (154)
• United States
8 May 07
This is one of those questions that are easier to say and harder to do. I think if you work out and be a little selfish with yourself...the flame will always blaze. Doing your hair or just putting into your self makes a man chase you for that attention again.
missladycc
@missladycc (154)
• United States
8 May 07
There is not much you can do. We are emotional beings, so when we are down the man that stays by our side must endure those moments; because when we get back up and get HOT again....he shell enjoy the rewards...:) I think the key is.....don't stay down for too long...
AcousticSoul
@AcousticSoul (1309)
• United States
8 May 07
So keeping myself looking hot will keep that fire burning... what gives you the urge to do so...you know sometimes you don't feel like being pretty... you know you have those days when your spirits is low... and you just want to be you.. what do you do
andak2007
@andak2007 (3229)
• Philippines
4 May 07
for now we are all focused in taking care of the babies and nothing else much...but then i don't fight him and nag at him, i kiss him when he gets home from work and we plan to travel to other places when the babies get bigger...coz that is what we like to do.
AcousticSoul
@AcousticSoul (1309)
• United States
4 May 07
So right now everyone is just content the children are a primary focus so you don't really need to focus on the marriage ??
lucky_witch
@lucky_witch (2707)
• Philippines
4 May 07
Just let the love remain in relationship... show it... in every possible way you acn... 1. Say i love you to the one you love most often... 2. Treat her/him as the only one in your life... 3. Treat each day as special day always.. Be at your best always and make the most out of your relationship... You will nver regret being at your best...
AcousticSoul
@AcousticSoul (1309)
• United States
4 May 07
I see what your saying but doesn't that become hard sometimes when you don't feel like doing that.. There are going to be times when you don't want to be together...
Ashbee02
@Ashbee02 (24)
• United States
3 May 07
You should try reading "The Five Love Languages" by Gary Chapman. The book talks about how to keep love alive and how to show your spouse you love them through their "love language." A love language is just some way a person feels love. Like one person may feel love by talking to their mate, but person B feels love by receiving small gifts. The way to stay in love is to serve your mate (and hopefully she/he will serve you to). When you work twoards making each other happy you both are satisfied in the marriage and you are not stressed out and are more capable of feeling that "love" feeling again.
AcousticSoul
@AcousticSoul (1309)
• United States
3 May 07
thanks for the info I will make sure to check it out sounds interesting