have you ever wanted someone you thought you couldnt have,

@Zelmarq (12585)
Cebu City, Philippines
May 3, 2007 8:07pm CST
then found out he liked you? I was always a hopeless romantic ever since and liked someone so much and I just eneded up always seeing him from a far, there watching him secretly.
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@cdparazo (5765)
• Philippines
11 May 07
Oh yeah! way back in college. I had this classmates whom I like so much but we just came from different backgrounds and were not even on speaking terms. I really had such a huge crush on him that I topped my class just trying to empress him. LOL! I feel the 'kilig' factor whenever I sense that he is looking my way whenever I do the recitation or answer my teachers questions that I do it a lot. ha ha ha! Then once while I was walking the corridor, one of his barkada called me 'his girl' upon seeing me that I was so surprised. I became more observant with him and his friends and I started to notice that he gets teased whenever I start to recite or answer some questins in the class. But sad to say, he already had a girlfriend. He he he!
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@Zelmarq (12585)
• Cebu City, Philippines
16 May 07
Well, I have not seen my crush with another girl but I heard he was already gettig married. Well, he was a long over due love and its time to move on. But i liked the feeling of being so kilig about him.
@kitkat1 (1227)
• Canada
5 May 07
Yes i do know this feeling well in a big way. Some time ago i would say about 5 years ago i was in an abusive marriage and i met a very caring man who wanted me to get out of the relationship to be with him well i had a hard time getting out of the relationship and he got tired of waiting. Well i loved him so but life went on and i finally got out of the abusive relationship and ended up in yet another abusive one for about 3 years and all this time we would see each other but would not speak or let on we even saw the other. Then i got out of the second relationship and neither of us could stand it no longer we both had to admit we still love each other so much. We started off taking it slow both of us very nervous about the whole thing and we are together today and very happy. It is like a dream come true i thought he hated me after all i didnt love him enough to break clear but you know i think we love each other more now then we did then. I am so happy now life cant get no better than this.
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@Zelmarq (12585)
• Cebu City, Philippines
5 May 07
I am really happy for you. Sometimes it takes us to levels which we can endure and finally end in each others arms once again. Thats a true happy ever after story.
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@lucky_witch (2707)
• Philippines
4 May 07
Yes... I am typical woman... i guess nothing is really special about me... and what more... iM a separated woman...then I was inlove with a guy whom I think is so close to perfection... I never thought... not a moment that this guy would fall in love for me... But then one time it happen... I still dont believe it... I thought he was just playing games... But then... he did everything to make me believe... He gave his very best to make me happy... He takes care of me and my kids... He accepted me and love me for what I am... I guess I can say that I've been love the best way any woman can love...
@Zelmarq (12585)
• Cebu City, Philippines
4 May 07
we are special and keep that in your heart and mind and there is sopmeone that God has prepared for us.
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@whyaskq (7523)
• Singapore
4 May 07
This seems like a movie. If he is someone you liked and thought you could not have him only to discover that he liked you. I would be elated. Are today's guy that shy? I doubt so. They would not just stand afar and watch the girl they liked secretly. Very often, they would take action. If it is the reverse, it might happen, but in today's world, there is equality in both sexes. Girls are equally outspoken nowadays.
@Zelmarq (12585)
• Cebu City, Philippines
5 May 07
Thank you whyaskq! Im still the type of girl who could not dare to make the first move, well I guess im too old fashioned and I am ok with it. Yes, I have obsereved that even here in our country tyounger women are more daring.
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@barnkinney (1343)
• Philippines
4 May 07
yeah.. this actually happened to me a couple of times already.. well, i would always think that i would not be able to have the guy i'm wanting.. so it would really be a good feeling to know eventually that he likes me too. but there's still this certain someone that i like.. and i'm sure i can't have him.. :( i'm not even hoping someday.. but i still can't stop liking him.. - barn kinney http://barncogitations.blogdrive.com/ http://barncogitations.blogspot.com/
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@Zelmarq (12585)
• Cebu City, Philippines
4 May 07
Same here, I thought he liked me too but I realized that I was only dreaming and I m glad I was able to wake up fro that dream.
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• United States
4 May 07
Yes,My current wife...I was always attracted to her growing up but we never shared mutal friends or anything like that although we always ran into each other seemingly eveywhere I went So one day I made small talk with her and it eventually lead to baby and wedding talk,she is the love of my life and I don't know where I would be without her in my life
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@Zelmarq (12585)
• Cebu City, Philippines
4 May 07
Thats a real happy ever after and its really nice to start a hopeless event that turned out to be a miracle and made us really happy that we have found that someone who have made us complete.
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@lonely_f16 (2146)
• Philippines
16 May 07
unfortunately I have a very "reliable" feelings lol..I thought that they like me but it turns out that my mind is just playing tricks on me...
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@Zelmarq (12585)
• Cebu City, Philippines
9 May 08
Well, it happened to me many times and I ended up concieted for nothing.LOL. Have a nice day and take care.
@alicebun (204)
• China
16 May 07
I think you are really a kind person,I have not met such person who I love but I could not have.But if there has such person,maybe I will do like you.
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@Zelmarq (12585)
• Cebu City, Philippines
9 May 08
There is the word called develop, sometimes when people first show kindness and care more often than not we misinterpret them and end up on the lossing end.
@Jesikka06 (184)
• United States
16 May 07
yea im the same way ... but then again i find myself wanting someone and then thinking i cant have them, and then when i get them, i dont want them anymore ... but thats only with ex's ... with new people ... i look at them and think everything they do is amazing even the little'st things it always seems to be so cute ... and then i think well they dont or wont ever see me that way so i let it go lol
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@Zelmarq (12585)
• Cebu City, Philippines
16 May 07
wow thats the spirit, hehehehehe. I like your positive attitude.
@beauty_ph (2749)
• Philippines
16 May 07
I do most of the time. Like those taken good guys. Ideally they are perfect to be a husband so I just have to secretly admire them. And most of the time know what they do or what they wear and how they smell hehehe!
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@Zelmarq (12585)
• Cebu City, Philippines
17 May 07
Hehehehe,thats the problem with perfect husband to be, they are already extinct. I had someone I never thought I would ever be with. Maybe we were really meant, the other guy I was dreaming for is happily married, good for him.