Bachelor party and married
By jmespinosa82
@jmespinosa82 (498)
United States
May 3, 2007 8:17pm CST
How many ladies out there would you let your husband go to one if you knew a stripper was there and would it make a difference if there was a stripper there?
4 responses
@beckish (641)
• United States
4 May 07
I would not care one bit if my husband went to a bachelor party with a stripper there. I trust him, and I think trust is the key word. :-)
@jmespinosa82 (498)
• United States
4 May 07
Ok that sounds reasonable but what if the stripper was an ex??
@beckish (641)
• United States
4 May 07
Nope, I still wouldn't worry. If my husband wanted to be with any of his ex's, he would still be with them and wouldn't have married me. My husband and I are soul-mates,and perhaps we are lucky in that both of us feel the same way about the importance of fidelity. :-)
@jmespinosa82 (498)
• United States
4 May 07
Thats good that you have that trust but in my oponion he is still a man. Believe me I know trust more than most people my husband is deployed and there aren't no innocent women in the army neither.
@breepeace (3014)
• Canada
7 May 07
I wouldn't care. Actually, I think I might, but I think I'd be a little more put-out that I couldn't come because most men think having a woman around would put a damper on their fun. :)
Strippers are there for entertainment. They're not there looking to hook up with the guys from the bachelor party, and I would imagine have to be pretty withdrawn and indifferent about men when they're working. Besides, I trust my guy wholeheartedly, he's a doll, not the cheating kind.
@breepeace (3014)
• Canada
7 May 07
*LOL* Yes, I think going to the strippers is fun, as well.
I don't think men generally mind women coming out to the strippers socially, but bachelor parties are a little touchier since it's the groom's last night as a single man and no man really wants to have a woman around when he's trying to let loose as much as he is on that special night.
@jmespinosa82 (498)
• United States
7 May 07
Yeah I guess you're right but still. I am just glad that my husband always wants me by his side and if we can't take the kids he usually don't even want to be part of it. I have a really great family man husband.
@jmespinosa82 (498)
• United States
7 May 07
My husband wouldn't cheat I know that and I agree why can't I come me and my husband have gone to strip clubs together so I don't see the big deal of going together and it was actually fun for the both of us. My husband and his friends even bought me a lap dance.
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@mommy20212004 (350)
• United States
12 May 07
I don't think I would have a problem with my husband attending a bachelor party with a strip club if the party were at a bar or something. However, I have a big problem with bachelor parties being held in hotel rooms or private residences. I think I would have to draw the line there.
@jmespinosa82 (498)
• United States
14 May 07
Yeah I think that is very reasonalbe as well. My husband has gone to strip bachelor parties at a strip club and at a bar before but not ever at hotel room or someone's house neither. The question has never came up but if he did get invited he probably wouldn't want to go. He always wants me there with him just because we only get about 9 months together then he is gone for at least a year with the army.
@jmespinosa82 (498)
• United States
15 May 07
I do trust my husband very much so but again there is a difference private residence or hotel rooms anything can happen yes there are restrictions in bars and strip clubs but you are right anything could happen at either. I guess I am just glad that my husband don't even care for things like this he didn't even have a bachelor party neither.
@yamahagirl (415)
•
4 Jun 07
Hi there,
Well i trust my husband and dont think he would ever do anythink like that(well i hope not)but i would let him go i would give him that trust.
@jmespinosa82 (498)
• United States
5 Jun 07
That is the only thing you can do is give him trust and hope. I trust my husband too. The thought of some girl dancing her boobies in his face just irritates me and he don't care for it any way.
