intimacy in public with ur partner????
By karanchadha
@karanchadha (123)
India
May 3, 2007 11:27pm CST
how much intimacy do u show for your partner in public???is it jst a hug, a caress,an innocous kiss on the cheek,an intimate kiss or even more....what do u think should be the limit??or should there be any limit...and do other people have any right to comment on wat goes on between u n your partner at public places??post ur insights and experiences(if any)....
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4 responses
@samtaylorskykierajen (7977)
• Canada
6 May 07
An innocent hug or kiss or even where two people are holding one another is fine with me but I don't agree with individuals who are showing big displays of intimacy that should be shared in the privacy of the home and not on the streets . I don't like having to try to shield my children from something that is inappropriate . We should know what is appropriate and what isn't if we are old enough to be in a relationship and don't feel that this show is any more then that " a show " . The world doesn't need to know or care about how much you love the person you are with and does not need to see it on display in front of everyone . There is a limit to what should be displayed and anything else should be considered indecent behavior and should not be allowed especially in public where there are many young and impressionable children .
It is great to find the person you love and to be able to show them this but there is a time and a place for everything and it seems that the more people that feel the need to show all to everyone are just trying to impress others with what they have and not what they really have .
@vokey9472 (1486)
• United States
6 May 07
I think sometimes people go too far with their public displays. I am guilty of it. When I was younger (early 20s) I didnt have any sense of what was appropriate. I would totally make out with a guy, letting him touch me and even take my shirt off and stuff in public. I just didn't care. Granted, I hung out in places where that type of stuff wasn't even noticed, but still.
When I met my hubby I was older (late 20s) and the most we ever did in public was get into some heavy kissing. I guess it was just being older that made me realize that there is a limit to what is appropriate behavior for a couple in public.
@deepti15 (1190)
• India
4 May 07
I dont feel comfortable showing my intimacy in public, at the most I can hug my partner publicaly, but never has come the situation where I had to cross my limits in this. But I love holding hands and walking around.
Infact when people show intimacy in public, I avaert my gaze, I feel shy and actually feel uncomfortable.
As far as limits are concerened, it should depend on the person, not on public.
People themselves should understand what they should be doing in public and what not.
@derek_a (10874)
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4 May 07
I never worried about intimacy in public with my partner, but it is usually just a kiss or an embrace if she has been away and I am picking her up at the train station.
Years, ago I got more intimate than that though on a public beach. We have plenty of large towels though.. ;)