betrayed twice???
By merlblue
@merlblue (275)
United Arab Emirates
May 4, 2007 1:00am CST
do you think it is totally enough if the one we love betrayed us twice, do we still need to give him a second chance?
4 responses
@shannon76 (1232)
• United States
4 May 07
"betray me once, shame on you, betray me twice shame on me"
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@shannon76 (1232)
• United States
4 May 07
could be a number of things:
being young - I know when I was younger and I thought I was in love with someone and they did me wrong, I was willing to forgive them and listen to them when the promised things. Talk about being stupid! I was dumb. My very first boyfriend, I was 13 when we started dating and we finally ended it when I was 16. I seriously can't even begin to count the number of times he cheated on me and I forgave him. Honestly it was my fault he kept doing it because I kept forgiving him.
another reason is pattern: some people are use to people that behave that way. For example a young woman that grew up with a father that way. Of course she will seek out a partner that is the same way because that is what she is use to.
self esteem: low self esteem is a HUGE factor when it comes to this as well. if a woman doesn't feel worthy and better yet, if the man is telling her she isn't worthy of anyone else, she will quickly forgive him in fear she can't get anyone better.
There are a million other reasons, those are just a few and a few big ones I might add.
@lucky_witch (2707)
• Philippines
4 May 07
Its 3rd chance I guess... I dont know but if in that case i dont think it would be a wise idea to forgive him again... I mean he did it the second time... and you forgive him... then for the third time again??? I dont know... but if he really loves you he wont do it again and again... but all is still up to you my dear
@samson1967 (7414)
• India
4 May 07
First time it is an accident, Second time it is coencidence, Third time it is enemy action. Hope you got it.
@dragon88 (89)
• Philippines
4 May 07
maybe?....it deppends if he have done the worst thing ever in you then he dont deserve any second chance...but if this probleme can be solve or its just a misunderstanding then talk about it if nothings happend...absolutely no second chance for him....but think first a lot of times before having dicisions like this..and think about taking about his mistake in a calm way to avoid some trouble...but if he pursue on his action then be adragon in his sight...okay?
