Have you ever dreamt of your partner having an affair?LOL!!
By Augustta
@Augustta (1850)
Poland
May 4, 2007 2:48am CST
Well,i remember that few years a go i wake up in the morning very sad and with any mood to talk with my love because in my dream he was kissing with another women...Of course he ask me what happened with me and i said nothing because i was sure he will laugh a lot...but the feeling was so strong and i was so hurt in dream than i couldn't keep secret anymore and of course he "fix" me saying i am silly...and i am the one..blah blah blah...
Now i am a happy woman and usual i smile and i give smile around me,but the feeling was so strong and this just turn me up all day...i even don't want he to talk with him...ha ha ha!
I am not expecting for the reply like i am crazy(tell me something new...lol)i expect for someone which had same experience and was in real life little upset with his spouse because a dream...
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41 responses
@easy888 (10405)
• Australia
4 May 07
Hello,augustta, i do not have a partner right now, but when i was in the relationshop with my ex-boyfriend,i had a nightmare about him having an affair with other women,and it turned out t o be true and i was cheated by him.It was a sad story.
@ellie26 (4139)
• Malaysia
4 May 07
Hi, well its true what you say easy888. I had a dream about my husband was having an affair. In my dream, I really saw his then mistress. When I told him about my dream, he just laughed at me and say that it was silly of me to accuse him of an affair just because I have dreamt about it. Anyway, my husband affair ended. It just scary that sometimes dreams come as a warning to us. Dont you find it spooky?
@Shrenik007 (314)
• India
4 May 07
To be very sad, i'm single right now.. And its not my age to have a partner, as i am only 20 right now...
But still most of the times, i dream of my affairs rather that that of my future partners.. lolzz..
Then when i wake up in the morning, i can't believe that i am single on my bed... I just curse myself, that why i woked up so early... :D
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@TerryZ (22076)
• United States
4 May 07
Hi Augustta I would always have them dreams. Arent they weird? I really wish I knew what they meant. But I dont. I would wake up feeling the same way. I dont have the dreams anymore so I wonder what that means too? I think Im going to buy a dream book. because Ive always been fasinated with dreams.
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@ravinskye (8237)
• United States
4 May 07
I've had the same types of dreams a few times and the same thing happened. I woke up and was mad at my husband. It took me most the day to stop being mad even though i knew it was just a dream. Its horrible to see something like that even if it is in a dream. I hope it never happens for real, I couldn't handle it.
@rb200406 (1824)
• India
4 May 07
Actually i trust my partner fully & i don't think he is going to have affair.I have not seen in my dreams also.But i can understand .sometimes the dreams are so true to real that we tend to think it is real.Once i dreamt that i am running & running 7 suddenly i stopped as there was this huge gap.I just stopped nor i would have fell.Actually the fear was so strong in that dream that when i woke up actually my heart was beating so fast that i could feel the fear in me.
@KissThis (3003)
• United States
4 May 07
I have never had such a dream myself. I trust my partner completely. My grandmother use to tell me as a child that you dream about the things that worry you the most. I don't know if that is true because I don't remember having any dreams as of lately.
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@Augustta (1850)
• Poland
4 May 07
hey,i trust my partner also...he adore me and just today from his office send me a flower(i will add here for you)saying that he love me...he is very original...
...that was the reason coz i was really in pain in dream and that pain was still here unrational after i was awake...
thank you,
augusta
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@ESKARENA1 (18261)
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4 May 07
dreams are often a way we express our anxiety and fears maybe a word with your lover will set your mind at rest
blessed be
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@tammyr (5946)
• Etowah, Tennessee
4 May 07
I often had dreams of my ex-BF cheating on me. I would dream about him cheating while I was in the bathroom, or while I ran into the store while he sat in the car, even while I merely had my head turned. It was only with this one guy, and never any other BF. I now know why, it eas true. While I would go in another room or away from him for more than a minute, he was either cheating or trying to.
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@liranlgo (5752)
• Israel
4 May 07
Of course i did. It is so normal. I do think that we all have fears in live that involves our partner leaving us.
So we dream about it. We have to get all of those fears out, and that what usually happens at reams. I am so glad augustta that we have this special tool- The dreams.
Well at first i can tell you that i reacted like you, I was mad and nervous all day. But then i told myself: liran, what are you doing? If you continue being mad at him because of your wonderful dreams you will lose him in real life, so i did find a wonderful way to deal with it.
You already know that i am a very creative person. Lol.
So everytime that i dreamed that dream, i just used it in real life for games. Yes games. And as you imagined that games turned up to be a great tool for love making. :)
(i can not describe more.. i am sure you understand why..lol).
@dedicated_28 (1383)
• United States
4 May 07
I didn't just dream of my spouse having an affair but I actually dreamed of the actual affair he was having. The same person and all. That's kinda creepy. After that dream I was like you said mad at my spouse, but I started to observe things. I actually caught him in the act, with the same person in my dream. I guess sometimes your dreams do mean something. Have a good day:)
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@amydawn11 (906)
• Canada
4 May 07
I dreamt that I walked in on my bf with another girl. I was so mad I started hitting her in my dream then I went to go after him but I just couldn't get to him. No matter how hard I tried I could not touch him, all I could do was yell. I woke up really upset..lol.I remember one time my bf woke up in the middle of the night, woke me up to ask me if I had cheated on him, I was half a sleep and was like what? He said his dream felt like it was real..lol
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@virtue777 (6)
• United States
4 May 07
Same thing happened to me. My ex used to lie to me about other women all the time. I kept having dreams of him with other women. I could describe the people in dream and everything. Come to find out when everything was over my dreams confirmed to be right. I wasn't too hurt because I was aware and had a strong feeling. But, alot of times when you dream something it is either for you or someone you know. Always keep you dreams in your memory bank. Except the bad ones.
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@vneo2007 (9)
• Singapore
4 May 07
well i could understand that as i myself did that too.
i kept this from my wife.
it was with my female collegue at work.
i m feeling guity just by thinking about it. Anyway i still want to contine with this affire, it give me a sense of enjoyment.
@mememama (3076)
• United States
4 May 07
I've had a few of those, usually it's when he leaves to go to work for a long time (works far away), the worst was when he was deployed and we weren't able to talk for along time. I was so mad in one dream, he brought his girlfriend to the house and she was fugly! I remember that dream well lol.
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@eeseharden (603)
• United States
8 May 07
I have had dreams like yours that seem so real and they do upset me a little. They keep creeping back in throughout the day and it's hard to shake them sometimes. I hate those dreams. I do realize they are dreams, but they will sometimes continue to tug at you. You are not crazy. I have actually been in a bad mood and it was all because of the dream. Dreams can be powerful things.
@bruxedo (773)
• France
4 May 07
I had those kind of dreams a lot of times and not only about my husband but also about family and friends. We dream that they have made a bad or stupid thing and even when we know that's not true, it was only a dream but you can't get away of that sensation of being mad at them.
I do enjoy your questions! and I also can't imagine you without a smile on your face.. I'm really not trying to get the best response.. I only hope that there are other mylot friends that confirm my words .. :)
@gasmas100 (585)
• India
8 May 07
hey Augustta, thats hardly a dream.more like a nightmare LOL.
I too have had such nightmares, I know it may sound funny, as few of my friends find it rather amazing and ADVENTEROUS, yet i would not fancy having such a dream ever again.
@rainqueen21 (338)
• United States
8 May 07
yea i understand where you are coming from, i've had all sorts of dreams in my life, some that actually seem so real i really felt like i was there and with all this said i've had dreams where my husband was with another women and i remember i used to wake up mad and i would wake up and hit him and he would look at me like i was crazy and then when i told him my dream he would laugh, i remember i had a lot of these when i was pregnant but i already new that was just my hormones messing with me