don't marry who you don't like

@ellijah (244)
Nigeria
May 4, 2007 4:54am CST
Marriage is to be enjoyed and not to be endured. I discovered that most people often get married to people they don't even like not yet talking of loving the person. In most cases, some (girls in particular) get married to a guy just because of his wealth. sooner or later, they start finding problems between themselves which could even lead to divource or the taking in of second party. My advice to young people is that if you dont really like a guy or a girl, don't even think of marring him or her cos you will be digging your own grave by your own hands. Even your kids will be affected in such a way that they grew up seeing they mum not having good relationship with their dad. Please in your own opinion, what advice can you give to the youths of our time?
3 responses
@jaki743 (32)
• Philippines
5 May 07
Some people marry for the wrong reasons.Some people get married to be happy and when they're not, they blame their mate. One who is not a happy person to begin with cannot find it in marriage either!
@cutebaby4 (196)
• India
4 May 07
I totally agree with the fact that we should not marry a person whom we don't like. Marrying a person purely for his wealth or his looks, may give happiness at that time, but later it may create lots of problems. I have seen many arranged marriages ending in a divorce. So it is said that prevention is better than cure.
@fazelath (1174)
• India
4 May 07
i completely agree with u,i think we should not marry that person whom we love,but marry that person who loves us